I don't know if this should be in the love post or not? I have checked this post and the love one and can't see one like it.....
I would like to know if people are willing to say what they think of One night Stands (hereby known as ONS) I have never had one/true or I think actually wanted one could be I am just very strange. I have tried to be honest with myself I have had a two night stand and maybe that experience but me off but it just did'nt feel right maybe just me what say you? Do Woman and Men have differing views on this is it an age thing any ideas welcome.

I personally do like one night stands!! Maybe i am just a little old fashioned when it comes to that type of thing. I have high standards and values and most of all i have some self respect all of which i would like to maintain!
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seems i had a one night stand last week. but i don't normally. that was totally out of my hands. i have a group of mates that will come round if im feelin that bit frisky. in the long run that's safer than one nighters. you never know what the other person could be carrying.

i like one night stands, but u can have 2 many. judt thinkits really fun being able 2 go home with someone, have a really good night with them then not see them again. sops all the heartache of them not calling u and breaking ur heart, which is always nice!!

i knew i was old fashioned!!!!
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"high standards and values and most of all i have some self respect"

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That to tell you the truth is the way I feel exactly about one night stands.

"Life without memory is no life at all"

What a relief...so maybe not so old fashioned then??
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Ladytrace how could you be old fashioned ,

well compared to the youngsters on here! i feel like my grandama! But never the less..... i will stand by my statement....!!!
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I feel the same did'nt want to say it was an age thing(in case I upset people) but I feel it is a matter of how old you are?.

"Life without memory is not life at all"

I personally don't like one night stands. I mean, i've had a couple of them..don't plan to again, though.

I mean, my friends go out almost every night JUST to have a one night stands. I don't see the point.

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I personally do like one night stands!!

I'm assuming "NOT" was meant to be inserted in there, so to speak?

The regulars probably already know my views but just in case, i'm on the "old fashioned" bench. Never have, or wanted anything like that. For me, love is meant to be the ultimate bond of intimacy and not something you do with every Tom, Dick(!!) and Harry. That also means that i'm not keen on girls who've had like 10+ partners. Having said all that, modern society seems to promote sleeping around and there are a lot of girls who have "marry buddies".

It's not for me, as i think "if one isn't enough, a dozen aint too many"....

Not a fan on the ONS. Nothing against it, I've just not had the crazy chemistry thing happen (well I have and it turned into more than one night )

For me, love is meant to be the ultimate bond of intimacy and not something you do with every Tom, Dick(!!) and Harry. That also means that i'm not keen on girls who've had like 10+ partners. Having said all that, modern society seems to promote sleeping around and there are a lot of girls who have "marry buddies".

Its a personal thing I suppose, I do believe it is more of a modern society thing like the woman next door next door(an ex of mine years ago now my best female friend) says love is nothing so way not have one night stands. But I do believe a person has the right to sleep with as many people without anyone putting them down. In the past hey used to have a double standard when it came to love. Its just me I'm not stong enough just to make love to a person for one night and say good bye. Please what the hell are/is "marry buddies" showing my age here.

"life without memory is no life at all"

Personally, i dont like them. Not sure why, i just dont.
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