i,m seeing this girl, at first she was all over me , and i simply ignored her . but now i,ve let her into my life(we work very close to each other) i feel very anxious.........heart banging all the time,because she isn,t chasing me anymore. . she kisses me and then she shows me affection without any prompting from me. and i haven,t slept with her yet. (and i haven,t suggested or pushed her into anything.......perhaps i don,t want to hear "NO" ) am i expecting too much at this stage. i feel i want to be with her a lot( although i know this is bad for me expect) but i can,t help being anxious all the time............(i don,t show her i,m anxious or like a puppy hanging around her, i,m pretty cool about things and don,t push her too much) but geeeeeeeeee my heart is banging all the time.........can,t get her out of my mind .

Are you for real?

yes i,m for real..............but i,m shit atunderstanding these things . maybe all in the mind but that,s the problem. i need input from you guys

Im totally confused as to the problem here - do you like her or not - if you do, stop p*****g sbout and ask her out for a drink - women cant read minds any more than men can - sounds like shes very into you - how many more clues do you need? If you dont ask the question you cant guess at the answer - good luck

i am seeing her at the moment . but i,m asking how do i control this banging heart for her all time. and the need to be with her .idon,t like this feeling........ can,t sleep , concentrate, etc. doing my head in . i put up a brick wall........she knocked it down and i don,t feel she is now showing as much affection as she first did.is it becase she has caught me and dosen,t feel she needs to work on me any more..............what the hell,s going on here .or am i just stupid at these things............who bloody knows

Who bloody knows indeed
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well i guess that from the answers , i,ve been given,then maybe it,s to be expected when one is in this situation . i probablyam beingsilly . i,ll just have to work it out inside of me,and have some possitive thinking about myself, maybe that,s the answer ................who bloody knows ?

You need to use an apostrophe where you keep putting commas.

e.g. It,s and I,m etc should be it's and I'm

I hope this helps.

Goodness thanks for pointing that out Vanda - reading his post was like being in a car driven on kangaroo petrol, I was starting to feel a little sick!

why thank's choochio, i knew this, but didn't think it bothered anyone,but there you go ! anyway thanks i ave now found the apostrophy button . ta very much, max.

thank's choochio, maybe you are right. i,ll try and return her affection, and put other stupid thoughts(that probably don't exsit)...............here goes

Hi i can kinda understand your situation,you need to just be you really i find it hard to work guys out im in the same kinda situation i know this guy likes me and i have met hm for a drink nothing happened we had fun and a chat next time im in work he ignores me trying to play it cool then i show him affection he shows it back im thinking if he was interested then 4 sure he would do the chasing after all i dont want to look desperate lol i say in conversation im going out with the girls sat night i get response !!!! ill meet up with you later,he says and i had the best night eva i went out with my girlfriends and met him later!! great night what i am trying to say is if you act cool expect cool you gotta take the bull with the horns so 2 speak n live life show your interest if she doesnt like it youll find out n move on but the chances are shell show as much interest as you do really!!!