Heres one of them adults out to play for a while

Hiya Cazz

The only couple of things that i look for in an ideal match for a man is TALL due to my height (i'm 5'10") men dont like me taller than them when i wear my heels!

and the second is a non-smoker. (quite a few of people i have dated have smoked which i have accepted although not been keen on! its not nice kissing a smoker when you arent one) other than that i do look at what i have in front of me and accept them for what they are.

they start off nice, say they are HONEST and CARING etc, then they turn and show their true selves including dating other people and lying aobut it amongst other things.

I am an honest, caring, loving person with a lot to give but end up not receiving the respect and love i deserve.

If you are out there - please get in touch!

I don't bite!

You know, this morning I found a profile on FB of someone who, on the surface, would suit me perfectly (not that I'm looking of course ). But she went on and on and on and on and on about a non-smoker. She is not shallow at all, she just doesn't want to be with a smoker, this is one of the things on her 'list'. If anyone on this forum tells me they don't have a list that includes at least one or two 'shallow' things (i.e. personal preferences) that they absolutely will not compromise on, I shalll start a new thread called 'Pants On Fire'

[As a smoker, I think any list that includes no-smoking is a bit of a shit list, but hey, it's not my list, they can put what they like in it Laughing Oh, completely off-topic (what's new), 4 of my dates in the past year professed to be non-smokers, but when we were together they scabbeed rollups off me - non-smokers indeed, they were just too tight to buy fags ]

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I dont feel hurt by your comments re smoking. But I'm not shallow at all. Ive never smoked nor stopped people from smoking - its their choice - but i choose to be with a non smoker - but cant find one! lol

i suppose you could say im shallow re height too if people think im shallow re smoking versus non smoking - in that case - i am tall and choose NOT to date a short person! I went out with a guy 5'7" once but it didnt feel right - people stared when we were out - and i didnt feel comfortable with it. it looks bad when a woman is taller than a man - but ok when the man is taller.

I was starting to think that us smokers were becoming a minority now. Oh and for all you smokers out there who can't smoke in pubs in england, etc now, get yourselves over here, our ban doesn't start until March 31st 2008, he he

Welcome Gav