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01.08.2009, 08:01 quote

sanotan
Joined: 31 Jul 2009 Posts: 7 Location: United Kingdom, Wales, South Glamorgan
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Ok, I'm a single 21 year old guy, 22 in september. And honestly, I've hit bottom.
Almost two years ago, my last girlfriend became lesbian on me and it ended, and it seems ever since, I'm cursed, as if this very fact proceeds me to girls I have never met in my life.
In those two years, I've met many nice girls, including one who I felt different for, but its always the same story; "Your just a friend, nothing more."
I've tried approaching girls here on flirtbox since I signed up yesterday (two to be specific), but what I need is advice that will actually work in finding a meaningful relationship. I'm not here to find a one night stand or "sex partner", I'm here to find a meaningful relationship, with a girl I could spend the rest of my life with.
So, advice please?

 

01.08.2009, 10:28 quote

sc0ttie

My advice would be simply stop looking for a relationship. Stop looking at women as potential partners and just get to know them as you would any new friend. Love has its habit of creeping up on you when you least expect it. By that I mean when you are busy doing other things and not preoccupied with searching for it as it were the lost ark and you being Indiana Jones Laughing

 

01.08.2009, 10:34 quote

jemima78
jemima78 Joined: 17 May 2009 Posts: 790 Location: United Kingdom, England, Lincolnshire
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sc0ttie wrote:
My advice would be simply stop looking for a relationship. Stop looking at women as potential partners and just get to know them as you would any new friend. Love has its habit of creeping up on you when you least expect it. By that I mean when you are busy doing other things and not preoccupied with searching for it as it were the lost ark and you being Indiana Jones Laughing


I have an image of you dressed as Indiana Jones now Scottie!
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01.08.2009, 10:39 quote

sc0ttie

PMSL including whip

 

01.08.2009, 10:41 quote

jemima78
jemima78 Joined: 17 May 2009 Posts: 790 Location: United Kingdom, England, Lincolnshire
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Especially the whip Laughing
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Let it never be said that romance is dead.'Cos there is so little else occupying my head. There is nothing I need except the function to breathe But I'm not really fussed doesn't matter to me.

 
 
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