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15.11.2007, 11:16 quote

Anonymous

Greystone wrote:
It coninues to exist and thrive because the techniques it teaches in getting women work!


In getting women for what purpose? A date? A long term relationship? A shag?


It seems to me that there is slight confusion over the reason for ‘pick up routines’ and ‘openers’. They are used to 'get laid' - period.

If a woman is looking for something a bit more long term in nature of a relationship, then they will undoubtedly find ‘pick up routines’ and ‘openers’ shallow and abhorrent. The very nature of the term ‘pick up’ indicates that the intended purpose of the openers and routines is aimed at procuring something more short term. If someone is looking for a one-off date or a shag, then ‘pick up routines’ and ‘openers’ do work. They generally work on insecure, emotionally needy or vulnerable women.

But then if it’s just to ‘get laid’, the rustle of a 20 quid note also works (if you're standing on the right street).

But I suspect that this is more of a game than anything else, the game of procuring sex with someone usually outside of the pickup artists social or intellectual reach.

Greystone wrote:
An opener differs a lot to a chat up line in that it does not infer interest in the woman, it is designed purely to get the woman talking.


Lol……So does natural conversation (e.g. “the bus is late is late this morning”).

 

15.11.2007, 19:07 quote

trevp66
trevp66 Joined: 26 May 2006 Posts: 1043 Location: United Kingdom, England, Hertfordshire
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Regardez mon visage, vous greystone d'idiot, je ne suis pas tracassé, ne suis pas intéressé, et ni est n'importe qui autrement.

 

15.11.2007, 19:13 quote

Anonymous

Cet homme est un muppet comme aucun autre sur cette planète

Laughing Laughing Laughing

 

15.11.2007, 19:50 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 6827 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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Right Trev & Megalone, enough of the abuse please. Doesnt matter if its in a foreign language, it still boils down to a personal attack which is against the rules.
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15.11.2007, 19:52 quote

Anonymous

sorry...........

 

15.11.2007, 19:56 quote

Cazzabee
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No problem....just remember the thing my mum used to say "If you cant' say anything nice then don't say anything at all"Very Happy

Now anymore of it and over to the sex forum for a spanking you go Laughing Laughing
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15.11.2007, 20:02 quote

Anonymous

allrighty!!!!!

 

16.11.2007, 09:04 quote

Greystone
Greystone Joined: 28 Mar 2007 Posts: 419 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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darkhorse57 wrote:
In getting women for what purpose? A date? A long term relationship? A shag?

It seems to me that there is slight confusion over the reason for ‘pick up routines’ and ‘openers’. They are used to 'get laid' - period.
No that is a load of rubbish. Pick up routines are designed to get you into an interaction with a woman and to build up rapport with them and interest in you from the woman. So they can be used for anything from a one night stand to a long term relationship. The pick up routines are designed to get you a woman. What you do with her once you have got her is up to you.

You have never been to a pick up seminar or read any books on picking up women or posted on an pick up forums so don't know what you are talking about. I however have been heavily involved in the pick up scene and so know exactly what it is about.

Pick up guide books and routines are designed to maximise your success with women. That is why they teach things like good body language, good conversation skills, how to give off a good vibe etc.

I don't know why people on here are so against a movement which teaches guys how to become good with women. The guy I saw give a lecture last night at Borders

 

16.11.2007, 15:56 quote

annmarie5988

Greystone wrote:
darkhorse57 wrote:
In getting women for what purpose? A date? A long term relationship? A shag?

It seems to me that there is slight confusion over the reason for ‘pick up routines’ and ‘openers’. They are used to 'get laid' - period.


No that is a load of rubbish. Pick up routines are designed to get you into an interaction with a woman and to build up rapport with them and interest in you from the woman. So they can be used for anything from a one night stand to a long term relationship. The pick up routines are designed to get you a woman. What you do with her once you have got her is up to you.

You have never been to a pick up seminar or read any books on picking up women or posted on an pick up forums so don't know what you are talking about. I however have been heavily involved in the pick up scene and so know exactly what it is about.



Pick up guide books and routines are designed to maximise your success with women. That is why they teach things like good body language, good conversation skills, how to give off a good vibe etc.

I don't know why people on here are so against a movement which teaches guys how to become good with women. The guy I saw give a lecture last night at Borders


Listen Babe, i dont mean to be rude, and sorry Cazza but can you please shut up and stop trying to convert anyone on this site to your ways of 'interacting' with women. And with comments like you have made above about women it's no wonder you are single, the way you talk about women is disgusting and all the guys on here are quite capable of finding there own women in there own way ............... now please go and practise what you preach and get yourself a girl ffs ................... Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad

 

16.11.2007, 17:36 quote

Anonymous

Greystone wrote:
What you do with her once you have got her is up to you.

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Whaaaaaa????????

So a woman is like a piece of fish you got from the fish counter in Asda?
Or an old teapot you found in a skip?

That is just about the scariest thing I've ever heard anybody say about a woman....think I'll go and hide in my cupboard......

 

16.11.2007, 17:57 quote

Anonymous

Greystone wrote:
You have never been to a pick up seminar or read any books on picking up women or posted on an pick up forums so don't know what you are talking about. I however have been heavily involved in the pick up scene and so know exactly what it is about.


Oh you're talking to the wrong person when you aimed that at darkhorse. He doesn't need seminars or books on how to pick up women.

You say you have to pay women for sex? Hmmm, forget the 'experts' talk to darkhorse.

 

16.11.2007, 21:08 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 6827 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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Right people....this is a forum where people can freely talk about many different things. As long as Greystone does not break the rules (i.e abuse, posting links to other websites) then he is free to talk about what he likes within the frame of the topic. If this is a way that works or doesnt work for one person then thats their perogative. If you dont like it then dont read it, nobody is forcing anyone to read anything or try to convert you. This is something the OP believes in just as any of you may start a topic on something you believe works in the quest for love. All I ask is that you please respect each others opinions even if you disagree Very Happy
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17.11.2007, 09:12 quote

Anonymous

Greystone wrote:
darkhorse57 wrote:
In getting women for what purpose? A date? A long term relationship? A shag?

It seems to me that there is slight confusion over the reason for ‘pick up routines’ and ‘openers’. They are used to 'get laid' - period.
No that is a load of rubbish.


It's not a load of rubbish - you said:
Greystone wrote:
Well pick artists that I know in London on thelss forum gets dates and get laid!





Greystone wrote:

You have never been to a pick up seminar or read any books on picking up women or posted on an pick up forums so don't know what you are talking about. I however have been heavily involved in the pick up scene and so know exactly what it is about.


You don't know that I haven't been to a seminar, read any books on the subject, or posted on pick-up forums. As a matter of interest, I happen to know more about the subject than you do (and more than some of the guys who have written some of those books and hold those seminars, but I don't go on about it here because I've got better things to do with my computer time). Additionally, I also have better things to do with my time than try pick-up techniques......not that I need to use them anyway, I have natural charm Oh, and having a 3-legged dog helps too Very Happy Most people (and I include myself in this) don't need any help with Cold Approach, Inhibitions or Social Confidence training or anything else that the likes of PUA (Gambler, Beckster or whoever) can 'teach'. This kind of training DOES work; it works for SOME people. Some people need a bit of help, some don't. Some people take all this far too seriously - at the end of the day, the whole thing is just a game (the seduction community even call it 'Gaming').

I know a lot of things, some from first hand experience, some because of the work that I have done/still do. Knowledge comes from all sorts of experiences (for example, I know a lot more about the homeless scene in London than you do - that doesn't mean that I am homeless; I have every internal phone number in the Houses of Parliament - that doesn't mean I work there).

 

17.11.2007, 09:16 quote

Anonymous

BexBex wrote:


Oh you're talking to the wrong person when you aimed that at darkhorse. He doesn't need seminars or books on how to pick up women.

You say you have to pay women for sex? Hmmm, forget the 'experts' talk to darkhorse.


Oi, cheeky!!

See, all those seminars I went to worked for me (Just kidding.......)

 

17.11.2007, 16:01 quote

Anonymous

darkhorse57 wrote:
BexBex wrote:


Oh you're talking to the wrong person when you aimed that at darkhorse. He doesn't need seminars or books on how to pick up women.

You say you have to pay women for sex? Hmmm, forget the 'experts' talk to darkhorse.


Oi, cheeky!!

See, all those seminars I went to worked for me (Just kidding.......)



 
 
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