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16.02.2007, 11:42 quote

Anonymous

hi phil....just sharing your experience and venting a little bit of your anger should help you come to terms with your situation but i think its important that anything new should start with a clean slate, it wouldnt be fair otherwise.
It is crap that youve been dealt a bad hand three times but have faith in yourself...it'll all come good in the end..but its never easy...love hurts...

all the best


PhilReed wrote:
Hi all!

Well i had a girlfriend three years ago and the relationship seemed to be near enough perfect but then one day she just disappeared out of my life without saying a word. If i was in a relationship and i was told she didn't want to know me anymore i can handle that but not knowing at all really REALLY gets to me.

After a while i tried using dating sites like these and did get close to another couple of women (not at the same time!) and even tho they said they really liked me (one even said she loved me), I have found the same thing has happened since.

I am worried that because of this happening to me not once but three times that it might affect me when i do start chatting to someone nice and i may even get paranoid or even posessive which is something i've NEVER done before.

How can you move on in your life if you don't have the answers you feel you need to move on?

Hope all this makes sense ;o) and thank you all for taking the time to read this.

Phil XxX

 

25.02.2007, 14:05 quote

Anonymous

As one of the elders on here and have been married twice and lived with someone for 5 yrs, I think I can relate about wondering if its me.....everyone kept saying my standards were too high cause I didnt want anyone that drank alot or did any drugs..welll, I know I am fine with my standards now but it took me a very long time to come to that and yes have wondered also why some men would go out with me several times and dissappear...you will find your true love out there and will fill complete..move on cause you will probably never find the answer about her and you will keep second guessin about yourself and then the self esteem goes to hell...even if it was you there will be someone that loves you for who you are and will have the guts and love enough to tell you if she doesnt like something..good luck in your endeavors

 

02.03.2007, 17:56 quote

Anonymous

PhilReed wrote:
Well i had a girlfriend three years ago and the relationship seemed to be near enough perfect but then one day she just disappeared out of my life without saying a word.
Bloody hell she must have been a really nasty woman to do that. To leave without even giving a reason or telling you. At least you have had a relationship I never have.

 

02.03.2007, 18:00 quote

Anonymous

stonecastle wrote:
PhilReed wrote:
Well i had a girlfriend three years ago and the relationship seemed to be near enough perfect but then one day she just disappeared out of my life without saying a word.
Bloody hell she must have been a really nasty woman to do that. To leave without even giving a reason or telling you. At least you have had a relationship I never have.
Why was she nasty? No one just ups and leaves a man without a bloody good reason.

 

07.03.2007, 17:54 quote

Anonymous

Oh thats awful.... sorry to hear it, but you will get over it all eventually, it will just take time.

Good luck

 

11.03.2007, 17:42 quote

Anonymous

By the way crying in front of her while begging her to come back to you might bring her back. Apparantly crying appeals to a womans maternal instincts.

 

11.03.2007, 17:55 quote

Anonymous

stonecastle wrote:
By the way crying in front of her while begging her to come back to you might bring her back. Apparantly crying appeals to a womans maternal instincts.


No!!!! crying appeals to womens 'stabbing you with something sharp' instincts!

 

11.03.2007, 18:07 quote

Anonymous

pollyanna37 wrote:
stonecastle wrote:
By the way crying in front of her while begging her to come back to you might bring her back. Apparantly crying appeals to a womans maternal instincts.


No!!!! crying appeals to womens 'stabbing you with something sharp' instincts!


haha too true...

its just makes you feel pity for them.... or anger

 
 
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