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Home >> Love & Relationships >> Mini-Rant & a question!
01.12.2006, 13:20 quote
I have no problems talking to guys that have shown an interest in me while i'm in a pub/bar/wherever, but as soon as I mention the fact that I'm 19, they don't want to know.
Is it just me andmy age or is it that guys have bad views of other people that are under 20 or 21?
Guys only ever seem to be interested in a one night stand with me, or a couple of dates, not an actual relationship.
Any ideas on why this is?!
01.12.2006, 13:36 quote
Based on your profile and previous posts here (which is all I have to go on), you seem to be a "mature" 19 so I can't see why people would see your age being a problem.
From the hypothetical viewpoint, I would have no problem with dating (in the proper sense of the word) a 19 year old that was a mature and responsible person.
Don't worry too much about it Laura - it's their loss 
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01.12.2006, 13:39 quote
Are these guys older? younger?
Their loss eh Flower
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01.12.2006, 13:49 quote
i think they just want one night stands cus hey pigs... but no offence but they might see younger people as old enough for the love bit, but not mature enough for the relationship
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01.12.2006, 14:11 quote
definetly their loss
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01.12.2006, 14:12 quote
| Cidem wrote: |
| Based on your profile and previous posts here (which is all I have to go on), you seem to be a "mature" 19 so I can't see why people would see your age being a problem.
From the hypothetical viewpoint, I would have no problem with dating (in the proper sense of the word) a 19 year old that was a mature and responsible person. Don't worry too much about it Laura - it's their loss ![]() |
They don't have a problem until I say i'm 19..that's the thing that puzzles me.
I like to think i'm a mature person, maybe these guys don't see that?
01.12.2006, 14:13 quote
| Hugglies wrote: |
| Are these guys older? younger?
Their loss eh Flower |
I tend to go for guys in their 20's..Maybe it's the wrong age group?!
01.12.2006, 14:14 quote
agreeing with rob i think his name is... yes it there loss any1 who wouldnt want a relationship with some1 as charming and beutiful as u is a moron, that sounds like im chatting u up to but im not ![]()
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01.12.2006, 14:16 quote
| pirakkanaama wrote: |
| i think they just want one night stands cus hey pigs... but no offence but they might see younger people as old enough for the love bit, but not mature enough for the relationship |
Yep...but I have done the whole one night stands thing...i'm over it now.
I guess that could be the problem....old enough for love, not mature enough for a relationship.
01.12.2006, 14:17 quote
| pirakkanaama wrote: |
| agreeing with rob i think his name is... yes it there loss any1 who wouldnt want a relationship with some1 as charming and beutiful as u is a moron, that sounds like im chatting u up to but im not |
Thank you
01.12.2006, 21:31 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: |
| I have no problems talking to guys that have shown an interest in me while i'm in a pub/bar/wherever, but as soon as I mention the fact that I'm 19, they don't want to know.
Is it just me andmy age or is it that guys have bad views of other people that are under 20 or 21? Guys only ever seem to be interested in a one night stand with me, or a couple of dates, not an actual relationship. Any ideas on why this is?! |
To be honest, its a question no one can answer,
Similar questions have been asked on here often since I've been on here by men and women. Also over the years I have seen people rush into marriages with people not really suitable for then because of problems they have had meeting people, which is not good.
But you're probably right, older men maybe do want just one night stands with you at the moment, which is unfortunate for you. But its puzzling why men 3-4 years older then you think that way.
Seems harder now then when I was young though, a lot more complicated...so I wish you luck.
We all have to wait and see what tomorrow brings
01.12.2006, 22:21 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: |
| I have no problems talking to guys that have shown an interest in me while i'm in a pub/bar/wherever, but as soon as I mention the fact that I'm 19, they don't want to know.
Is it just me andmy age or is it that guys have bad views of other people that are under 20 or 21? Guys only ever seem to be interested in a one night stand with me, or a couple of dates, not an actual relationship. Any ideas on why this is?! |
try telling them you are 21 then..see if that helps...anyway, being 19 just go and have some fun..relationships can wait..enjoy your youth while you still can..its not all fun being older.
01.12.2006, 23:22 quote
| Jeggea wrote: |
| To be honest, its a question no one can answer,
Similar questions have been asked on here often since I've been on here by men and women. Also over the years I have seen people rush into marriages with people not really suitable for then because of problems they have had meeting people, which is not good. But you're probably right, older men maybe do want just one night stands with you at the moment, which is unfortunate for you. But its puzzling why men 3-4 years older then you think that way. Seems harder now then when I was young though, a lot more complicated...so I wish you luck. We all have to wait and see what tomorrow brings |
I could just want too much. I don't know.
01.12.2006, 23:23 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: | ||
I could just want too much. I don't know. |
the best deserves only the best... and im not chatting any1 up on this site so dont think i am
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01.12.2006, 23:24 quote
| KEVIN53846 wrote: |
| try telling them you are 21 then..see if that helps...anyway, being 19 just go and have some fun..relationships can wait..enjoy your youth while you still can..its not all fun being older. |
I have had my 'fun'...and it's getting boring now.
And lying isn't good.
Even if lying is the most fun a girl can have without taking her clothes off...
(hmm...lol, just listened to that song!)
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