my toyboy dumped me because i got kids great huh? so now when you have children you immediately stop being as desirable and arent meant to be with anyone else rather r than their paternal father?raah i am so pee'd off right now!!!

Sorry to hear that louby That's the thing about toyboys though, they're great for a laugh and all night shagging but beyond that there isn't much else. Have a drink

thanks you guys i sure wont tar them all with the same brush dakhead he is!!!no booze in the house had a drink at my pals last night so its for the best i could do with some blood in my alcohol system!!

not all single mums want to find a man to "look after" her and her kids. i work and support my children myself and do get time away from them when they go to their dads. i want someone to love me for me. of course it helps if he gets along with my kids but i don't need a replacement dad.

my feelings exactly summed it up nicely

Well I would still go out with a woman if she had kids if I fancied her. Why did the father of your kids leave you in the first place?

HE DIDN'T. I LEFT HIM.

as above and as cazza says thats personal and none of your beeswax and very little to do with what you asked just then

i lived with my ex ex for 5 years with her autistic child. that was hard work and got harder as he got older(age 4-9). what eventually broke us was her, wouldnt listen to reason, decision to remove him from school and teach him at home, which she was unable to do due to his temperament and her on off depression. Once you take them out its incredibly hard to get them back. I had to go to work so could only do stuff with him at weekends. the only time he got out during the week was when social services took him out. I tried to keep everything together for about a year but a relationship just can't take that kind of stress. They lived with me for about 6 months after we broke up cos she didnt have anywhere to go. it was kind of easier after that although the kid was going off the rails a bit by then. she went to live in cornwall with my best m8s brother. by then the kid was having rage episodes lasting hours a time, being physically violent etc, they had to call the police round once to hold him down, sounds crazy for a 10 yr old boy. fortunately the docs eventually got on some appropriate medicine and last time i saw him he seemed to be back to the nice kid i used to know.