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Home >> Love & Relationships >> Mature ladies for younger men?
15.11.2008, 16:28 quote
First of all, hello to everyone who reads!
I was just wondering, as it's quite common in this area, why people (older especially) find it so wrong for a younger person, i.e. 18, to be sexually attracted to an older person, i.e. 38, and vice versa. I also don't see what's wrong with acting on that. I would love the opportunity to learn from an older lady, so any offers
Anyway, what are people's thoughts on this?
15.11.2008, 16:40 quote
I don't personally see anything wrong with it, and I myself have dated someone who was alot younger than myself. It's up to the two people involved, if there's a mutual attraction then why shouldn't they act on it?
15.11.2008, 16:47 quote
Glad to hear someone with an open mind
I would honour the chance to be with someone more... intellectual, mature and more experienced than people my age. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with people my age but I generally get on better with older women which is a problem considering that most older women who would consider it (with me) are opposed to the idea of age gap relations.
15.11.2008, 17:16 quote
| welshcookie90 wrote: |
| Glad to hear someone with an open mind I would honour the chance to be with someone more... intellectual, mature and more experienced than people my age. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with people my age but I generally get on better with older women which is a problem considering that most older women who would consider it (with me) are opposed to the idea of age gap relations. |
That is exactly the reason my young lady wanted to be with me, uncanny.
16.11.2008, 13:59 quote
Post copied from sex forum.....
| mirrorpool wrote: |
| Hello welshcookie!
I think for many people they see it almost as being incestuous when the ages are so great they could be mother, or even grandmother and son. Then from a relationship point of view, many people would say there can be no future it's only sex, but I don't think it is the only thing. It's not clear to me why many young men are sexually attracted to older women when there are so many beautiful women their own age, but I don't think it's very often about the 'mothering', 'experience' or 'sugar mummy' thing which is what most people seem to suggest, I think there's something else. Interestingly the web hides a lot of the issues that would be apparent in the real world. For example, say I don't see an age or picture when messaging begins, age goes completely out of the window, some men of 40 are silly and boring whereas some young men are interesting and have great wisdom for their years. So how disappointing it can be if there's already been a connection when then the ages and pictures appear, and you're of the mindset that feels huge age gaps are wrong. |
16.11.2008, 14:19 quote
i do agree with the coments here..any matured lady interetsed in my profile pls contact me
16.11.2008, 18:19 quote
I never got the younger bloke thing older women thing until 3 years ago when I found myself single after 22 years. I just thought why would a younger bloke want a older women, whose possibly had kids, possibly got wobbley bits stretch marks etc, you get what I am saying !!!Then I found out!!!! Its just an age and while I couldnt see myself being with a much younger guy permanenlty they do offer different things as us older women do...and if every one enjoys them selves then whats the problem, both parties might even end up with a big giggle and smile and rememeber that person for ever!!! Result!!!
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