This is my first post here, and I'm not used to this kind of thing but trying to start something new here, so here goes.

Recently, the guy I was previously with told me that he didn't love me for generally all the time we were together, but led me to believe he geniuenly cared about me. He told me he was starting to feel bad for taking advantage of how I felt for him, which is why he was telling me how things were, and left.

Before he left he kept mentioning his ex-girlfriend, and how he missed her, which leads me to believe I was just something so that he didn't feel lonely.

I felt and still do feel really used, that I was being made to do these things I wasn't ready for, but I thought it was okay, believing that he felt the same way I did. We used to spend every moment of our time together, which I can understand, isn't healthy, but it caused me to distance myself from everyone in my life to the point where I now don't even have anyone to talk to.

I'm writing this in hopes of actually finding someone I can talk to and will be able to move on, after being stuck in such a rut. xD

Sounds like you have been used by someone on the rebound. Something we all have to be wary of.

Not sure what advice anyone can give you, just tell you about similar experiences. Personally I've never been used or have used anyone. But can understand someone might be in a bit of turmoil after a break, and look for something to fill the gap. Sorry it seems it has been you

Is a big danger when you lose touch with others in your life because of a relationship. Is there no one in real life you can build a bridge with?

Anyway, this forum isnt as busy as it was, but might make you feel less lonely..have a look around and get involved in some of the threads

It does sound like he was on the rebound as above. Atleast he had a little respect for you in telling you - even though it was probably more just to clear his conscience.

If you want someone to talk to, just holla. I'm pretty good at 'fixing' people it seems - however, i'm also a sarcastic git so you'll need a good sense of humour
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Onwards and upwards,
Looks like you are on the right path, and as the others have said, learn from it, move on