Difficult question to answer that. I suppose to be complimented for either would be a good thing. Point is, what is attractive to one person isn't necessarily to another so I would probably take greater heart in someone telling me I had a great personality.

Either really. I'm not that fussed, both types would make me smile as much each other.

Its nice to be told you look good but without a personality your lost...

personality is far more outstanding than looks is whats on the iside that makes the person

I'd like to be complimented on personality ......... so I know she's not shallow. Then later ..... maybe a small compliment on how horny I make her feel. But personality first.

Before I watched the programme seduction school I always thought that looks were by far the most important thing women decide on. But after watching it a couple of times I now know that personality can go some way towards making up for bad looks.

this is an old topic - and an old question.

to answer the question simply - i would get by with people telling me i'm attractive but it has a saturation point after which you dont register it. i'd rather be told i have a good personality since that apparently has no saturation point.

even so, i was in a conversation with a girl at a pub who stated that she would not consider being with someone if they didnt look good. appalled as i was i realised that she had her standards (even if it meant that she'll only see one side of the moon for the rest of her life)

but i wonder if women say what they mean sometimes.

I have dated men who when I first met them I found unattractive physically. But as we got to know each other, and became good friends, I fell deeply for their personaity and that sort of projected itself on their physical appearance. To me, if a person is beautiful inside, that's reflected in the way they look on the outside. Personality is really the most important thing to me. I would be lying if I said looks didn't matter at all - of course they do - but looks are also relative. And people can become more and more attractive over time. Just because they don't make you want to jump into bed with them the first time you see them doesn't mean anything.

As for me, it's hard. I think personality is more important in almost all cases, but I've been called a "nice girl" or a "smart girl" so many times it would be nice for once to be called pretty. But for the most part, I'd take personality any day.

People always comment on my looks... it gets a bit boring really. So i much prefer people commenting on my personality