Well Red, Im sure there are loads of people who want something just sexual... just not where I tend to go out . Perhaps I should go to different bars on a night out?

lol i never thought of it like you put it darkhorse, yes i will be moving so i guess its not so long distance haha

ok i'm confused...... where are you moving peachy and who with? i know you have a bf i just don't know who.........

lol i'll be moving across the sea but not yet lolz we both just been flying backwards and forwards i'm off the 25th lol

I live in Hastings and had a relationship with a man in The Hague. It used to take me 5 hours to get there by Eurostar and 3 hours to get back, because of the time difference. I enjoyed the journey, watching the different types of people on the train and station in Brussels, where I changed for the Hague train - their foreign clothes, newspapers and magazines, hearing people talk in various languages etc. Just being "abroad" made it more exciting. Soon, the trip became so routine I stopped looking out of the train window!

Cost me £100 each trip and I'd go for the weekend, leaving here on Fridays at noon and arriving about 5pm and leaving Monday morning and getting home about 11am. (He worked M-F 9-5 hours you see.)

It worked, because neither of us was high-maintenance. We appreciated our time together. We spoke on email every day and on the phone on the weekends I didn't go over.

We split up for reasons totally unconnected with the distance.