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02.10.2006, 10:03 quote

Anonymous

moldypeach wrote:
mines working Very Happy but mainly because we both want it too and we can both travel no problems.


Hasn't been long term though has it ?
Hope it works out for you, and it sounds like you are both happy which is the main thing. But I cant see how it can work long term, without it only really being sexual...In some ways I hope I'm wrong.

 
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02.10.2006, 19:12 quote

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spdarkhorse wrote:
Ultimatly all relationships fail... (bitter and twisted Steven there for a minute, sorry)

If you put in the work to a long distance relationship then there is no reason why it shouldn't last as long as any other. The ending is worse than usual because it has to be done remotely, its not fair to drive 230 miles to be told 'sorry its all over', and 230 back again in an upset state (the timing can be picked carefully though).

If it becomes permanent relationship - marriage or living together, then by default it has to fail as a long distance relationship when one of you moves near the other one. Its then a normal relationsip.

Just a thought on the love thing though. If thats all you want from a realtionship then there are plenty of locals who would do that without any strings attached. OK you might have to pay, but it would be cheaper and less hassle than the travel costs, the accomodation, meals, weekends away together, evenings out, phone calls, all the little things that make life a bit more fun.


I agree totally with your last paragraph SP. Why go to all that bother for just a sexual relationship. You wouldn't even necassarily have to pay for it locally. I'm sure there are plenty of people about happy enough for something 'just' sexual.

 
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03.10.2006, 06:44 quote

Anonymous

spdarkhorse wrote:
Well Red, Im sure there are loads of people who want something just sexual... just not where I tend to go out Sad. Perhaps I should go to different bars on a night out?


Perhaps you're not getting drunk enough, or obvious enough Wink

On the rare occasion i go pubbing, the guys that usually lear my way are usually very drunk, and very obvious. They're the ones i run from!! lol Laughing But you can see it working when they approach a female that's equally drunk and leary Very Happy

 
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03.10.2006, 09:44 quote

Anonymous

lol i never thought of it like you put it darkhorse, yes i will be moving Very Happy so i guess its not so long distance haha

 
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03.10.2006, 10:10 quote

Anonymous

moldypeach wrote:
lol i never thought of it like you put it darkhorse, yes i will be moving Very Happy so i guess its not so long distance haha


Wow Peachy. Respect to you. It takes courage to move any distance to be with someone.

Good luck to you both.

 
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03.10.2006, 11:13 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
moldypeach wrote:
lol i never thought of it like you put it darkhorse, yes i will be moving Very Happy so i guess its not so long distance haha


Wow Peachy. Respect to you. It takes courage to move any distance to be with someone.

Good luck to you both.


I agree..all the best Peach Razz

 
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03.10.2006, 12:04 quote

Anonymous

ok i'm confused...... where are you moving peachy and who with? i know you have a bf i just don't know who......... Confused

 
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03.10.2006, 14:17 quote

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almostpurrrfect wrote:
ok i'm confused...... where are you moving peachy and who with? i know you have a bf i just don't know who......... Confused


It's Gizzimoto (not sure of spelling).

 
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03.10.2006, 15:17 quote

Anonymous

lol i'll be moving across the sea Very Happy but not yet lolz we both just been flying backwards and forwards i'm off the 25th lol Very Happy

 
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03.10.2006, 15:53 quote

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moldypeach wrote:
lol i never thought of it like you put it darkhorse, yes i will be moving Very Happy so i guess its not so long distance haha


Hey good luck both of you Very Happy

 
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