im going to try answer that the best way possible in just a sec.I was on another site i had thread with 20,000 views in weeks time.Now with that said I put these 2 together that lived 1200 miles apart,the miles didnt deter them they knew what was in their heart.And when it all comes down that should be all that matters,am i right?

I think 230 miles can work provided at least one of you is in a situation where moving at some point isn't an issue. I think much further distances tho' are doomed to failure most of the time, no matter how hard you try.

Everyone here that has spoken of having had a long distance relationship so far doesn't seemed to have made it past the 2 year mark, for whatever reason.

Love can conquer lots of things, but not everything.

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Good luck to them both

Long distance relationships can work but it does require some give and take on both sides. I have had a long distance relationship but I was doing all the traveling and when it suited her. it just becomes a chore and love seems to go out of the window.

I tried 130 miles and it didn't exactly work that well. Mind you, we were both at college at the time. I ended up moving in with him and 5 years after we got together, it turned sour.

If it's really something you want to go for, then try it but don't bet everything on it.

Distance can work! It does need a lot of trust and feelings for each other but look at different modes of transport i can travel from Exeter to Edinburgh in 2 hours and it's not that expensive if you book on the net! budget airlines like Flybe cost me around £45 and the dearest flight so far £69 return! Using Voipe and Skype keeps phone costs down and mobile phone specials like O2's bolt ons and offers mean you can text at anytime and even call on the cheapo too!

I would definitely say give it your best and go for it!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill!!!!

No, it's not really for me. At the end of the day I'd want someone that I know I can see without having to fly or sail to see them. I used to talk to someone online from Boston, USA for over a year who seemed cool but then later she got all carried away and said that she wanted me and no one else and it wasn't that she wasn't my type, it was just that this wasn't what I wanted. She now lives somewhere in England and I think she's engaged. I was also surprised to see her in the Smiths special of NME this year talking about what that band meant to her.