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08.09.2006, 22:33 quote

Anonymous

Aluria wrote:
Good luck to u Dave...just remember if Tony and i can do it anyone can...and he is the one that came back and is telling everyone now that he is gonna make this work
luv ya


wow..lovely to here this news alura..so you both back on track..hope it all works, you deserve it..

 

09.09.2006, 01:11 quote

Anonymous

thank you kev...i think it will this time..true that 1500 miles is hard, but i still think if u love each other and really want things to work u will do whatever it takes

 

09.09.2006, 10:23 quote

Anonymous

ScotsDave wrote:
Since posting this topic I thought I would explain how I felt. I have read everyones post on this thread and traken them all on board. Well i do think they can work, yes i know it is much harder not being in same town city ect. But maybe that can work better for the relationship I have been in relationships where people take each other for granted or just spend time with each other because they can not because they want too. What i want to happen is to make that bit of an effort to see the person you like and to make every minute count when you are with them. To do things because you want to not because you can. Yes you maybe lonely at times but maybe that keeps the love fresh and alive well call me a romantic but that is my hope.............. Embarassed


Good luck Dave. Anything can happen in love if you both want something enough. Very Happy

 

23.09.2006, 10:08 quote

Anonymous

I think 230 miles can work provided at least one of you is in a situation where moving at some point isn't an issue. I think much further distances tho' are doomed to failure most of the time, no matter how hard you try.

Everyone here that has spoken of having had a long distance relationship so far doesn't seemed to have made it past the 2 year mark, for whatever reason.

Love can conquer lots of things, but not everything. Sad

 

23.09.2006, 10:09 quote

Anonymous

cessna85 wrote:
pollyanna37 wrote:
ScotsDave wrote:
Just wanted to know do you think a long distance relationship say of 230 miles would it work! Smile


I dated my ex for 2 years long distance, he was 120 miles away.

It just takes a little more planning and unfortunately spontaneity is rare, but it can work.

I agree with the posters in that they say that someone will have to move if things get serious, but you should cross that bridge as and when you come to it.

Pol x


Pol I agree... see how things go then decide on how things will work between you both..... its subject that cannot really be thought about until you are both committed to each other and see a lasting future....


Good luck to the both of you (I expect an invite Wink )

 

23.09.2006, 14:06 quote

Anonymous

ladytracexx wrote:
Quote:
Good luck to the both of you (I expect an invite )


Errrrrrrr are you talking hats here???? Confused


But of course Wink

 

23.09.2006, 14:23 quote

Anonymous

Good luck to them both Very Happy

 

25.09.2006, 18:38 quote

Anonymous

Indiekid wrote:
No, it's not really for me. At the end of the day I'd want someone that I know I can see without having to fly or sail to see them. I used to talk to someone online from Boston, USA for over a year who seemed cool but then later she got all carried away and said that she wanted me and no one else and it wasn't that she wasn't my type, it was just that this wasn't what I wanted. She now lives somewhere in England and I think she's engaged. I was also surprised to see her in the Smiths special of NME this year talking about what that band meant to her.



I've always wondered if there's a link between location, music taste and bunny boiling

 

25.09.2006, 22:06 quote

Anonymous

After 5 years a phone call at work?

Jees she sounds like a nice lady!

 

26.09.2006, 19:04 quote

Anonymous

spdarkhorse wrote:
She was wonderfull for a couple or 3 intense weekends a month for 5 years.
Then a bitch for 5 minutes.


Damn good ratio there...

 

27.09.2006, 08:13 quote

Anonymous

whizzer wrote:
spdarkhorse wrote:
She was wonderfull for a couple or 3 intense weekends a month for 5 years.
Then a bitch for 5 minutes.


Damn good ratio there...

always look on the positive, it's a good job not everyone's a psycho out there hehe this thread scares me a bit Smile

 

29.09.2006, 22:33 quote

Anonymous

lol nah scares me, that there are so many weirdos out there Smile an i thought i was unique *sigh* Rolling Eyes ahh well i must be normal Smile long diatance relationships work i think if you want to make it work Very Happy mine's goin great it's just very hard when ya have to say that goodbye Sad

 

01.10.2006, 22:12 quote

Anonymous

moldypeach wrote:
it's just very hard when ya have to say that goodbye Sad


yeah..i hate that..always happens..then you think 'have i enough time to use it..' lol

Must be good though when you meet again i bet..

 

02.10.2006, 03:15 quote

Anonymous

cobbinah wrote:
Long distance relationships do not work period!!!!!!!!


Maybe not long term..no !!...can only be sexual the way I see it.

 

02.10.2006, 07:47 quote

Anonymous

mines working Very Happy but mainly because we both want it too and we can both travel no problems.

 
 
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