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07.09.2006, 21:04 quote

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ScotsDave wrote:
Just wanted to know do you think a long distance relationship say of 230 miles would it work! Smile


I dated my ex for 2 years long distance, he was 120 miles away.

It just takes a little more planning and unfortunately spontaneity is rare, but it can work.

I agree with the posters in that they say that someone will have to move if things get serious, but you should cross that bridge as and when you come to it.

Pol x

 

08.09.2006, 03:18 quote

ScotsDave
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pollyanna37 wrote:
ScotsDave wrote:
Just wanted to know do you think a long distance relationship say of 230 miles would it work! Smile


I dated my ex for 2 years long distance, he was 120 miles away.

It just takes a little more planning and unfortunately spontaneity is rare, but it can work.

I agree with the posters in that they say that someone will have to move if things get serious, but you should cross that bridge as and when you come to it.

Pol x



Weres this bridge i have to cross then Rolling Eyes

 

08.09.2006, 06:57 quote

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I've lived around Europe and have had quite a few long-distance relationships.

In my experience, there are always additional challenges to overcome - over and above the usual ones in any relationship.

You can see some of them listed in this thread: absence of your partner when you really want a hug and a kiss, high cost of phoning and travel, lack of spontaneity, lots of your precious free time spent travelling . . .

 

08.09.2006, 15:35 quote

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just wanna know more about you...

 

08.09.2006, 15:39 quote

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just wanna know more about you...

 

08.09.2006, 17:04 quote

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nabilgh wrote:
just wanna know more about you...



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08.09.2006, 17:25 quote

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Since posting this topic I thought I would explain how I felt. I have read everyones post on this thread and traken them all on board. Well i do think they can work, yes i know it is much harder not being in same town city ect. But maybe that can work better for the relationship I have been in relationships where people take each other for granted or just spend time with each other because they can not because they want too. What i want to happen is to make that bit of an effort to see the person you like and to make every minute count when you are with them. To do things because you want to not because you can. Yes you maybe lonely at times but maybe that keeps the love fresh and alive well call me a romantic but that is my hope.............. Embarassed

 

08.09.2006, 17:27 quote

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ScotsDave wrote:
Since posting this topic I thought I would explain how I felt. I have read everyones post on this thread and traken them all on board. Well i do think they can work, yes i know it is much harder not being in same town city ect. But maybe that can work better for the relationship I have been in relationships where people take each other for granted or just spend time with each other because they can not because they want too. What i want to happen is to make that bit of an effort to see the person you like and to make every minute count when you are with them. To do things because you want to not because you can. Yes you maybe lonely at times but maybe that keeps the love fresh and alive well call me a romantic but that is my hope.............. Embarassed


Well good on ya...... this does not sound like Sara????? good luck with it Smile
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08.09.2006, 17:27 quote

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ScotsDave wrote:
Since posting this topic I thought I would explain how I felt. I have read everyones post on this thread and traken them all on board. Well i do think they can work, yes i know it is much harder not being in same town city ect. But maybe that can work better for the relationship I have been in relationships where people take each other for granted or just spend time with each other because they can not because they want too. What i want to happen is to make that bit of an effort to see the person you like and to make every minute count when you are with them. To do things because you want to not because you can. Yes you maybe lonely at times but maybe that keeps the love fresh and alive well call me a romantic but that is my hope.............. Embarassed


go with your hope..and follow your heart..the rest is will follow

 

08.09.2006, 17:28 quote

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Good on you - hope it all turns out peachy for you.

 

08.09.2006, 18:12 quote

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Thank you all Embarassed Embarassed

 

08.09.2006, 18:13 quote

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08.09.2006, 21:05 quote

Anonymous

Good luck to u Dave...just remember if Tony and i can do it anyone can...and he is the one that came back and is telling everyone now that he is gonna make this work
luv ya

 

08.09.2006, 21:33 quote

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Aluria wrote:
Good luck to u Dave...just remember if Tony and i can do it anyone can...and he is the one that came back and is telling everyone now that he is gonna make this work
luv ya


wow..lovely to here this news alura..so you both back on track..hope it all works, you deserve it..

 

09.09.2006, 00:11 quote

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thank you kev...i think it will this time..true that 1500 miles is hard, but i still think if u love each other and really want things to work u will do whatever it takes

 
 
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