Quite right Red.
Lots of people do even adopt - of any sexual orientation - I know of a gay couple (both men) who are raising a little girl as their own (in America, and their daughter is peruvian) - I think they'd be not so chuffed to think someone thought they had it easy just because they don't have a wife!
Maybe u4ric didnt mean it in that way?

Maybe you find *young straight* people clubbing because they've not settled down yet and gotten 'responsibilities' yet?
And maybe the older gay people go to gay clubs because they've been there, done that, bought the t-shirt and are now ready to party?
As you point out the gay clubs are full of older gay people....maybe the younger gay people are busy with their responsibilities, just like the rest of us?
Maybe the younger gay people arent yet so comfortable with who they are *in our society*, not ready to be seen in a gay club? Whereas the older you get, no matter your sexual preference, the less you give a shite what others think.
To suggest gay people have less responsibilities in life seems rather insulting to them to be honest.

Nowadays there are a lot of gays in Turkey .. especially in istanbul and I prefer to run away from them

I like girls.. and so Girls should like me, too

Was it a bad idea to start this convo people, or is it ok with you all?

No its fine. Everyone has their own opinions, if we all thought the same thing what would be the point?

I agree.
If ayone doesn't like a particular subject they dont have to contribute to it.