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05.09.2011, 00:11 quote

theana
theana Joined: 03 Sep 2011 Posts: 4 Location: Sweden, ,
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I want someone to share my life with.
Someone who I can share my secrets with..
My details that I keep for myself..

Someone i can share my Days with..

Someone I can trust, someone who keeps what we're talking about for himself.

Someone who stands by my side through thick and thin. Someone who will offer a helping hand when i need one. Someone i can depend on, and have Fun with.

Someone I can do the same for, and that is actually appriciating it..

I am looking for someone who wants to listen to me when I talk. Someone who will understand, even if he doesnt have the same thoughts as me..

Someone I can whine to, that I can show my bad sides for.. Someone that will love me 100% even though I have my flaws..

Someone i can be around without make up, that is still making me feel like the prettiest woman in the whole world..

I want Someone who I can share things with. Someone I can talk and speculate with.

Someone who I can disagree with, that is still accepting and understanding what I mean without having to have a silly fight..

And above all, someone who respects the things i wanna say.. Anf my feelings, without making fun of me..
I am looking for Someone who respects Me ..
Who loves me for who I am..

I am looking for someone that will Do what he promises.. I am looking for someone who understands Honesty, Trust and Respect ..



I want someone who is perfect for me ..

-Is it just wishful thinking? A fairytale? ..



That's what my dream will consist of tonight ..

Good night people..

 

05.09.2011, 05:17 quote

justmet
justmet Joined: 12 Jun 2011 Posts: 390 Location: USA, Arizona, Fountain Hills
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I want to say, give up because that kind of man doesn't exist but on the other hand, I'm still a hopeless romantic so if you find that guy, ask if he has a brother. Wink
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05.09.2011, 10:18 quote

theana
theana Joined: 03 Sep 2011 Posts: 4 Location: Sweden, ,
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Oh... well that sucks..
Yeah i know the feeling..

Havent found any of those here in Sweden yet.. but i will tell you if i do, if he have a brother of course.. ^.^

 

05.09.2011, 11:15 quote

handsel
handsel Joined: 18 Mar 2009 Posts: 2254 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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Do all these qualities have to be rolled into one person?
Coz that's tough, you know!
You're going to be ticking 48 out of 50 boxes...
And going, 'Jez, that was sooo close! Next!'
Now, some say there is no compromise...
This is what I want!
This is what I deserve!
Why should I settle for less?

Others say, 'Well, I've weighed the 48 on the scales and I've had to put years of love and happiness next the missing two to get it balanced!'

And what happens if he weighed your 46 on the scales? When he smiles and kisses you - are you going to point out the discrepancy? Are you going to crow about who's got the better deal?

Maybe if you can't find ONE guy...
Why not look for a few different people who can fulfill all the needs?
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05.09.2011, 14:20 quote

theana
theana Joined: 03 Sep 2011 Posts: 4 Location: Sweden, ,
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Im not asking for a miracle.. Im not asking for someone without flaws.. I just dont want a guy that is cheating, lying.. Who's going behind my back and stuff. Or even worse, hurting me in purpose.
I want someone that i can share my life with. that i know i can trust and depend on.

Is that too much to ask for ?
From One person ? Is it?

-Cause if it is, i will stop looking, thats for sure..

 

05.09.2011, 14:49 quote

handsel
handsel Joined: 18 Mar 2009 Posts: 2254 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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OK, stop looking! Evil or Very Mad
No, I'm kidding. You deserve that mutual trust and respect.
We all do and we should quit any relationship which doesn't give that.
Any hurting - physical or emotional - get out.
Any fear - get out.
You mantra is taken from the creed of The One Ditto Man...
There is a man out there for me!
He's looking for me now!
I'm going to find him and drag him - blinking - into my light!
Good Luck!
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05.09.2011, 15:55 quote

theana
theana Joined: 03 Sep 2011 Posts: 4 Location: Sweden, ,
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Haha, funny ! ;D

But yeaah!
Thank you Sir! That sounds so much better! =)

I hope you will find what you are looking for!
I will keep having my eyes open... But i think i will stop searching for it. At least for a while..

 

05.09.2011, 17:05 quote

jobeeey
Joined: 04 Sep 2011 Posts: 5 Location: United Kingdom, England, Berkshire
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Hey, theana.


Personally speaking, I believe that you're asking for the MINIMUM standard in a relationship. I believe that those men do exist and I am one of them.

I could write out the same thing and replace 'man' for 'woman' and expect nothing less than that myself.

Others may not yet have had that experience to believe that it exists, but I have, and I know that I'll have it again one day. You will too.

Ok, so I'm not far off getting divorced, and one could question whether I had that or not. Well.. we both fucked it all up by neglecting those little things and eventually communication broke down. It happens to most of us; how we deal with the breakdown is what determines our character. Well, at least in my humble opinion.
I've learned from my mistakes and changed as a person. But I can't make my wife change. She's on her own path now and I hope she finds someone who makes her happy one day, too.



I don't believe in settling for second best in a relationship. Everyone has their faults, but what you've described would be heaven for me right now, too.

I really hope your Mr right is just around the corner.

Job Smile



* Hey wait a minute.. why isn't my profile picture showing... hmmm...

 

10.09.2011, 20:48 quote

s6boystu
s6boystu Joined: 07 Mar 2008 Posts: 3089 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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theana wrote:

I want someone to share my life with.
Someone who I can share my secrets with..
My details that I keep for myself..
Someone i can share my Days with..
Someone I can trust, someone who keeps what we're talking about for himself.
Someone who stands by my side through thick and thin. Someone who will offer a helping hand when i need one. Someone i can depend on, and have Fun with.
Someone I can do the same for, and that is actually appriciating it..
I am looking for someone who wants to listen to me when I talk. Someone who will understand, even if he doesnt have the same thoughts as me..
Someone I can whine to, that I can show my bad sides for.. Someone that will love me 100% even though I have my flaws..
Someone i can be around without make up, that is still making me feel like the prettiest woman in the whole world..
I want Someone who I can share things with. Someone I can talk and speculate with.
Someone who I can disagree with, that is still accepting and understanding what I mean without having to have a silly fight..
And above all, someone who respects the things i wanna say.. Anf my feelings, without making fun of me..
I am looking for Someone who respects Me ..
Who loves me for who I am..
I am looking for someone that will Do what he promises.. I am looking for someone who understands Honesty, Trust and Respect ..
I want someone who is perfect for me ..


You know... i can do all of that and more.

However i can also pretty much 100% guarantee that someone you know will also be able to do all of that.. that you've overlooked.

Most people know atleast 1 person that would do just about anything for them. They either haven't told them how they feel, or they're too scared to lose that person from their life by telling them.

I wish you luck in your quest for happiness
Smile
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10.09.2011, 22:33 quote

scriptwriter

Men who match your requirements do still exist. They are so rare though in life and way less so on-line that the odds of finding him is a challenge. There is one member on this site who matches. I won't say who though as it would spoil the shocking surprise...

 

09.11.2011, 16:34 quote

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try http://www.findloveontheweb.eu it worked for me...xx

 

22.02.2012, 04:55 quote

starlightxx
Joined: 21 Feb 2012 Posts: 25 Location: United Kingdom, England, Merseyside
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theana wrote:
I want someone to share my life with.
Someone who I can share my secrets with..
My details that I keep for myself..

Someone i can share my Days with..

Someone I can trust, someone who keeps what we're talking about for himself.

Someone who stands by my side through thick and thin. Someone who will offer a helping hand when i need one. Someone i can depend on, and have Fun with.

Someone I can do the same for, and that is actually appriciating it..

I am looking for someone who wants to listen to me when I talk. Someone who will understand, even if he doesnt have the same thoughts as me..

Someone I can whine to, that I can show my bad sides for.. Someone that will love me 100% even though I have my flaws..

Someone i can be around without make up, that is still making me feel like the prettiest woman in the whole world..

I want Someone who I can share things with. Someone I can talk and speculate with.

Someone who I can disagree with, that is still accepting and understanding what I mean without having to have a silly fight..

And above all, someone who respects the things i wanna say.. Anf my feelings, without making fun of me..
I am looking for Someone who respects Me ..
Who loves me for who I am..

I am looking for someone that will Do what he promises.. I am looking for someone who understands Honesty, Trust and Respect ..


The exact same things I have been looking for, even though i could probably add a few more to that list, I mix in circles that most people have no clue about so they need to educated in that. All I seem to come across are users, assholes, cheaters, etc. I won't settle for second best, if that means me dying as a crazy cat lady then so be it. I wish you all the luck in the world.

 
 
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