i know the is, and ive dated some lovely gusy but for various reasons it hasnt worked... i bet there all married now

Hmmm...
True Gentlemen? Personally I don't think they exist anymore, that's not to say there arn't decent guys around. I'm a decent guy, I just don't always hold doors open, put my jacket over puddles etc...

Also, sometimes the decent guys get fed up waiting and just go into hiding.
Still haven't had any response from anyone I messaged here, with one exception, and that wasn't to say hey. lol

But yea, keep lookin' an' don't always presume that all men are just lookin' for one thing. Yes we are lookin' for it, but often it's not the only thing, an' not at the front of our mind.

Just my 2p worth

Thanks for sticking up for the guys Sue...

I like to think of myself a gent; my intensions are not motivated towards sex. I simply want to get to know people and have interesting conversations. I think the guys using sending sexual messages put off women messaging guys. I reckon if all the weirdoes and pervs were removed we would have a fairly even number of men and women ratio. Thinking about this a different way, perhaps these guys sending out sexual messages do it and keep on doing it because it might actually work?

Anyway don’t give up there are nice guys out there, it might be a needle in a hay stack situation but in the end you will find some nice people…

i love posts like this because it gives a load of guys a chance to go "im not after sex, im a genuine guy " which is great of course because they probably are. and the post's intention if i haven't missed the mark completely here was to find these guys and draw them in.

the thing i don't like about posts like this is that as with most posts on here they're ambiguous and very stereotypical. where do you draw the line between someone who is or is not genuine? and ultimately, im betting there are a vast majority of people who wouldn't mind a bit of sex in a relationship.

in my opinion it's not people who constantly want sex all the time that's the problem, it's the people who cannot control themselves enough to not voice their wants for carnal pleasure. either that or they don't have the mental capacity to think of anythink but 'great tits, fancy a shag' to say.

i agree with the fact that some people want only sex, but to be fair the first place they'd all congregate is on an internet dating site where they can send an almost anonymous message asking for sex, how can they lose? they get turned down, so what? have another go...

but it is also my belief that all humans are generally good willed. it is their circumstances and history which make them appear 'ungenuine'.

anyway ive been waffling for far too long, good luck with your quest for the noble man.