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21.08.2006, 14:02 quote

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There's only one person that can tell you if you have been in love.....and that's yourself.

 

21.08.2006, 14:04 quote

SOATom
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flowerangelaura wrote:
There's only one person that can tell you if you have been in love.....and that's yourself.


but sometimes ill say damn i loved her (her being whoever im thinkin of at the time...), and other times ill just think nah, its ridiculous to think that... so im giving myself mixed messages as of now lol

 

21.08.2006, 14:07 quote

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SOATom wrote:


but sometimes ill say damn i loved her (her being whoever im thinkin of at the time...), and other times ill just think nah, its ridiculous to think that... so im giving myself mixed messages as of now lol


Been there, done that.

But..i'm one of those that believe that if you doubt you love/d somebody..you probably don't/didn't.

 

21.08.2006, 14:14 quote

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yeah i guess... but mostly i think, whats the point, thats past, all that really matters now is future! lol

 

21.08.2006, 14:16 quote

Anonymous

I guess.



If only I could wake myself up and realise that. Rolling Eyes

 

21.08.2006, 14:19 quote

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the thing is, whenever im down, listening to or creating music always helps me out, id rather be single and be able to write/play and listen to music than be in a relationship and not have that chance... so i guess that atm i love music more than ive loved anyone ive been in a relationship with, which either says i really really love music, or i wasnt amazingly fond of the girls... though i think the latter is more unlikely

 

21.08.2006, 14:23 quote

Anonymous

I'd go crazy without music. Even when I'm in a good mood..I have to have music on.

If a guy asked me to get rid of the music..I'd more than likely dump him. Sad, I know.

Most of my poetry is based on past relationships. Rolling Eyes

 

21.08.2006, 14:24 quote

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Love? a state of mind that can reduce even the stongest person to tears? So why when you want out of a relationship do you go through purgatory? Is because you feel you have failed? Living alone (I mean totally alone with kids around you!) has its downside but also has it good points too! Being seriously ill hmmmm not nice! Having serious problems! Both of these sort the real friends from the fairweather one? and most certainly having somone you love with you makes things alot easier
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21.08.2006, 14:32 quote

SOATom
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again, nicely said man

 

21.08.2006, 17:00 quote

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Thankyou sir! I seem to be somewhat on form tonight Wink
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21.08.2006, 17:01 quote

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21.08.2006, 17:33 quote

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21.08.2006, 17:56 quote

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love between two people is never unconditional. (exception to the rule is family) a man may fall out of love with you because your physical appearance/attitude/personality changes. you must be you and never change. i intend to change and grow and then change and grow again. i've given up trying to find love. let it find me instead.

i'm just loving being me in the here and now. and that is enough for me for the moment.

 

21.08.2006, 20:01 quote

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53846 wrote:
this is a good read..


http://www.alharris.com/essays/love.htm


youre right, its an excellent read, cheers m8.

 

22.08.2006, 19:40 quote

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almostpurrrfect wrote:
love between two people is never unconditional. (exception to the rule is family) a man may fall out of love with you because your physical appearance/attitude/personality changes. you must be you and never change. i intend to change and grow and then change and grow again. i've given up trying to find love. let it find me instead.

i'm just loving being me in the here and now. and that is enough for me for the moment.



totally agree, a deep & profound statement ap. really has struck a chord with me.

 
 
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