[quote="smileychw"] Please can someone tell me are there any nice men out there. I say this having just had a chat with a guy who was my age and lived in my area but with in 30 seconds he was offering to show me his 'brain' or as he typed it his 'occk' (spelling error) And he was wanting my number to ring me up for phone love and offering to meet me tonight for love. I am not a prude believe me but after 30 seconds of talking. What has happened to flirting??? Is romance dead. If you are a romantic man who would like to meet a nice girl email me. Prove to me I have not got it all wrong.

I can prove you wrong cause I am a real gentleman with respect to ladies, My problem getting a lady is cause I am disabled all ladies look at my profile and run away fast, you ask for gentlemen? well you prove to me is there a lady? why should disability be a problem? whats more important love or Care? so you women always blame guys for being too forward for love yet you women are oposite going other way when it comes to a disabled guy, hehehe, there I said my piece, gotta backup the guys, hahaha, kisses to you that care

After a bit more thought here.... I hate to say the following but some may agree.

We Nice guys are a dying race. as more and more of the typical fools, idiots and scum take over, us decent, honest, hard working, loving people who just want a decent and fair chance in life are left by the way side and abandoned.

Abandone all hope all who enter......

I have to say it but for some reason like deafguy has said and I agree with him as well as the gentleman on the final post who I sympathise with completely.

We disabled folk sometimes feel left out.

is it because of the "Baggage" that people associate with dating disabled people? the worries over adapting to life with a disabled person, etc.

For once, I'd just love to hear from a kind, loving, single woman either younger or older than me who just takes me for me. So what..... I'm blind. have been for 10 years and am proud of who and what I am. Blindness isn't a disability in my eyes, hahahahahaha there you go I did it again lol a blind joke YES! As far as I am concerned it's a way of life. you are dealt with the cards life gives you and that's that. you either deal with it or trap yourself in a box to be fed bread and water until you depart. I'm a fighter. I don't give up.

I'm young, single, sexy, hard working, honest, decent and affectionate. don't let the white stick put you off. just think of it as a part of me like women and hand bags lol.

We're all the same in the end. disabled, able bodied. what ever..... so we all deserve a bit of love and care. please don't see us folk as in need of care. we don't need carers. just a good strong, honest relationship with someone we can love.

I would be happy to be in love with a woman or girl or young lady who makes me smile, fills me with love and creativity and drives me mad on a daily basis. someone to share my life with so that at least when I'm gone from this earth (not gonna happen for a VERY LONG TIME) I'll go with a smile on my face and a future someone can take over.

anyway.... enough of all the soft stuff lol...

anyone for a bar of choclate, borbon biscuit, mcVities chocolate digestive? anything?


lew xxx