Please can someone tell me are there any nice men out there. I say this having just had a chat with a guy who was my age and lived in my area but with in 30 seconds he was offering to show me his 'brain' or as he typed it his 'occk' (spelling error) And he was wanting my number to ring me up for phone love and offering to meet me tonight for love. I am not a prude believe me but after 30 seconds of talking. What has happened to flirting??? Is romance dead. If you are a romantic man who would like to meet a nice girl email me. Prove to me I have not got it all wrong.

That seems to be pretty much the norm on here, its pretty annoying! Ive encountered a few, very few really nice men, who are gentlemen!

i'd say this guy has been watching too much porn and probably doesn't get out much to meet real women in real situations....keep it real people!

The thing that makes me laugh, is that people give out their MSN or what have you address to a complete stranger and then complain when this kind of thing happens.

I am not one of those people who would even consider doing that so you can't tar all blokes with the same brush, but then i also wouldn't give out my msn addy to someone i'd not spoken with properly either.
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I did not give out any info, it was a private chat in the chat room.

Look at the percentage of men to women on this site, and it tells you what half of them are here for. Unfortunately as a woman you will have these problems, but if you're patient it seems this site can work.
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I got in touch with my feminine side. She emailed me back saying if I ever contacted her again she'd call the police.

There's all types of people on here and sometimes you might chance sharing your msn, but it's easy enough to block then if they turn out not to be the kind of person you want in your life. You dont have to keep chatting to people in the chat room either, but I get your point, how difficult it is to have a bit of flirting and interesting conversation before love becomes the main topic.
I'd be wary of phones too, but if you prefer to use the phone, then use a different number/sim than your usual one just in case you have a problem with them.
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See this is why I NEVER EVER EVER EVER have private conversations with men in the chat room! I may piss people off with constant "i dont pm" every ten seconds but i dont care! I have no desire what so ever to talk to a random stranger privately! I know how its going to go down

him "hi"
me "hi"
him "your fit?"
me "thanxs"
him "can i have your msn"
me "no"
him "wanna see my brain?"
me "no, bye!"

Hell if your lucky you might even get a guy that tells you he can suck his own brain! LOL

Perhaps try talking to them in the main room first to get a sense of what they are about first? You can get to know someone pretty well just talking to them in the main room and your see thats true by how many regulars there are.

You see most of the men that just randomly request a pm are looking for just one thing and go through the whole list of names until someone answers so chances are that guy thought you would be up for it as you excepted a random request!

I never give out my msn address either, i mean me and Itea were talking awhile before we exchanged our addys! I also learned my lesson by one person i added who confessed he had fallen for me in like 3 days! He was soon gone from my list!!! LOL

Ever heard of the Cathedral and the Bazaar? It's an economic principle that works nicely here. Basically it states that in a centrally planned system (the cathedral) you'll get good results, but not as good as the free market system (the bazaar). Only problem with the bazaar is that there's a huge variety in what's available, and most of it's crap. Welcome to the bazaar.

Its dead around here... Unless your a hunky male, theres no chance of flirting where I live, and even then the women around here are only interested in love anyway, but only if you go to the gym every night so...

Yeah
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what do guys mean when they say I am looking for some fun times? as most people say this and each one means different things. So its a bit difficult to understand whom to talk to and whom not to when they start like this....any views?

fun = fun. playing crazy golf, go karting, paintball.. they are fun. well, to me anyway.
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