its so easy to 'project' your fantasies of the ideal person onto someone online who you find attractive and kind of 'believe' they are the perfect person that you 'could' fall in love with.........i have had men vowing their 'love' for me before they have even met me! mental, but true

.....he wasnt Bulgarian was he by any chance?! I wonder if it was the same guy that proposed to me!

Hi Love, can we chat here if you don't mind. I really Like your picture here.
from Kenny.

Angel, am from africa, can we chat if u don't mind.
kenny.

We as humans need both if we are able and willing to become balance with both. "love and lust" then we are capable to know the difference between our senses and emotions. Love does not do no wrong its US that commit the heart aches. I myself have never loved a man but have lusted and kept it limited because it's only a surface emotions. When we are ready to love or to be loved then we are willing to go beyond our human existences

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. Real love is all this that it is not just emotional but it should be unconditional. Because lust is self seeking yes we all need and want to be loved but we can in way force it on people and it should be something that is natural between man and woman. Lust also makes a person self centred and then if that what the relationship is built on then it will not grow. love is a most beuatiful act of love when it is in marriage and also done by giving whole to each other because then both man and woman get fulfilled and satified. When Emotion rules our lifes they can push us in the wrong direction because it should be made in the mind and from the heart and not on a whim that emotions take over then you find that you don't really like the person because of the way they act or talk. Then is it not wiser to find out what they are truly like before comittng to anything else. But because love never fails then this unconditional love can break through any problems that you face and hardships and stress to live as they say happily ever after because you spent that time together getting to know the one you truely love better each and every moment of your life even througth may some fighting and aurguements


I hope in a way that this can help some people that want to know what love and lust are because if it is about self then it is lust if about the other person then it is love just to sum it up .

Andrew from Rugby

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