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02.06.2006, 18:20 quote

Anonymous

swissrebel wrote:

If you're only getting pain, you're not with the right person.

I've been fairly lucky in love, so obviously my opinion is slightly biased.


My last relationship was good...Then he just totally hurt me. I don't know why, i don't know whether it was my fault, or his.

I have been quite unlucky. I mean, i'm 18 and i'm close to giving up on the whole relationship/dating/men thing.

 

02.06.2006, 18:26 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
swissrebel wrote:

If you're only getting pain, you're not with the right person.

I've been fairly lucky in love, so obviously my opinion is slightly biased.


My last relationship was good...Then he just totally hurt me. I don't know why, i don't know whether it was my fault, or his.

I have been quite unlucky. I mean, i'm 18 and i'm close to giving up on the whole relationship/dating/men thing.


Then surely it's obvious - if you want something like love, you'll have to take a gamble Smile

With the good, comes the bad. You don't need to make your life revolve around dating - so don't think of yourself as being outside a relationship.

Men are attracted to the same things as women, it's just they prioritise looks slightly more, however both want a partner who is happy with their life, otherwise they won't want to involve themselves in their problems.

stop thinking about men, just let it happen naturally Smile

 

02.06.2006, 18:32 quote

Anonymous

swissrebel wrote:


Then surely it's obvious - if you want something like love, you'll have to take a gamble Smile

With the good, comes the bad. You don't need to make your life revolve around dating - so don't think of yourself as being outside a relationship.

Men are attracted to the same things as women, it's just they prioritise looks slightly more, however both want a partner who is happy with their life, otherwise they won't want to involve themselves in their problems.

stop thinking about men, just let it happen naturally Smile


It's hard when all my friends are bragging about their 'great boyfriends'..i just want to scream.
Lately i haven't even bothered looking for guys. I don't see the point.

 

02.06.2006, 18:32 quote

keera
Joined: 20 May 2005 Posts: 13 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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Question??? Are ya sayin love generally is a load of bullshit or just boy/girl girl/girl boy/boy love is bullshit?????????Hmmm!!!

 

02.06.2006, 18:32 quote

Anonymous

keera wrote:
Question??? Are ya sayin love generally is a load of bullshit or just boy/girl girl/girl boy/boy love is bullshit?????????Hmmm!!!


Love generally is a load of bullshit.

 

02.06.2006, 18:33 quote

keera
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Thats when it finds ya!!!! when ya not lookin!!!!x

 

02.06.2006, 18:34 quote

Anonymous

I guess...

 

02.06.2006, 18:34 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
keera wrote:
Question??? Are ya sayin love generally is a load of bullshit or just boy/girl girl/girl boy/boy love is bullshit?????????Hmmm!!!


Love generally is a load of bullshit.


For you Very Happy

You have to remember, there's at least 2 people in this world in love.

Your bitterness towards love will never get you anything, so just ignore it. You'd have love, it's gone. You don't wait for the next one, you just get on with life.

No point in complaining Very Happy

 

02.06.2006, 18:37 quote

Anonymous

swissrebel wrote:


For you Very Happy

You have to remember, there's at least 2 people in this world in love.

Your bitterness towards love will never get you anything, so just ignore it. You'd have love, it's gone. You don't wait for the next one, you just get on with life.

No point in complaining Very Happy


Don't mix your words, do you?!

Good point, though.

Thank you Very Happy

 

02.06.2006, 18:39 quote

keera
Joined: 20 May 2005 Posts: 13 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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Love is everywhere, its special its exciting its sexy and it should always be wanted but never more than the love for ya self!!!!x

 

02.06.2006, 18:39 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
swissrebel wrote:


For you Very Happy

You have to remember, there's at least 2 people in this world in love.

Your bitterness towards love will never get you anything, so just ignore it. You'd have love, it's gone. You don't wait for the next one, you just get on with life.

No point in complaining Very Happy


Don't mix your words, do you?!

Good point, though.

Thank you Very Happy


No problem. Again, it's been said here already. The best way to find something lost, is to stop looking for it.

Can't beat that for advice!

 

02.06.2006, 18:40 quote

Anonymous

keera wrote:
Love is everywhere, its special its exciting its sexy and it should always be wanted but never more than the love for ya self!!!!x


I dunno, as much as I enjoy self-loving, it's not quite a replacement for the real thing Wink

 

02.06.2006, 18:41 quote

Anonymous

swissrebel wrote:


No problem. Again, it's been said here already. The best way to find something lost, is to stop looking for it.

Can't beat that for advice!


Very Happy

 

02.06.2006, 18:41 quote

keera
Joined: 20 May 2005 Posts: 13 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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Humour at last!!!!! Excellent!!!!!x

 

02.06.2006, 18:44 quote

Anonymous

I seem like a right miserable bitch most of the time, probably.

For the record...I'm not always like this. I do have times when i do believe in love and stuff. It's just one of those days.


 
 
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