help, my girlfriend is ignoring me, what makes her like this , we have both got a flat in the same building we only came back from a little break togther yesterday and since this am she,s been acting miserable and snappy towards me.is this her wanting attention or does she really want me to leave her alone. cos it,s doing my head in . any ideas ?

It is probably about something that she feels should be adamantly clear to you, so asking her could be tricky as it would display your ignorance.

So it would be wise to carefully think through what has happened recently. Did you inadvertently upset her or do something unthinkable?

If you draw a blank for a second time, try to ask her why she appears to be upset with you. It not be anything to do with you, after all.

Maybe she found out you are on here to meet someone to 'fill the empty void' in your life......

No offence Max, but, is this the same girl you have started several other threads about? The one who smothers you on one thread, ignores you on another? Perhaps one of you two isnt too into it... just a thought.
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thanks for your replies , anyway,yes it is the same girl(czech girl)and there are times when she is moody(usually at her time of the month)but today i was sitting in my room with a spinning head, not knowing what to do . so i confronted her(hence my delay to your responses) and i think that i goofed up here,by persuing the issue and demanding answers. but she wasn,t having any of it......wouldn,t talk at all, but i asked if she wanted me to leave ........up to you she said(to me that really means she wants me to stay) anyway she has always told from early on the she will never say to anyone if she loves them(it,s her security she said).anyway after me sitting there like an idiot in silence i decided to leave it at that. any help here?

My advice? Read more.

It sounds like you are struggling with your life's narrative and simply don't know what you should be doing with yourself and your romantic interests.

By reading more you stand a chance of making your thoughts more coherent and it will give you some stories to compare your life to. Some of Dickens' books with a male hero are a good place to start.

It's a radical suggestion but it might help.

Or just quote Carl from The Farce of the Penquins.
Offers some great insight into how to approach and talk to The Laydeeeeees.

I generally take my comments from Monty Python - you might not make sense, but at least you'll get a laugh.

And I still think she's pissed off with him for being on here to find someone else to fill an empty void......

sounds like you need to leave to me.
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