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27.01.2009, 18:50 quote

rocketgirl

Maybe she found out you are on here to meet someone to 'fill the empty void' in your life......

 

28.01.2009, 09:35 quote

rocketgirl

Or just quote Carl from The Farce of the Penquins.
Offers some great insight into how to approach and talk to The Laydeeeeees.

 

28.01.2009, 18:02 quote

rocketgirl

And I still think she's pissed off with him for being on here to find someone else to fill an empty void......

 

28.01.2009, 18:03 quote

sc0ttie

activemax wrote:
thanks for your replies , anyway,yes it is the same girl(czech girl)and there are times when she is moody(usually at her time of the month)but today i was sitting in my room with a spinning head, not knowing what to do . so i confronted her(hence my delay to your responses) and i think that i goofed up here,by persuing the issue and demanding answers. but she wasn,t having any of it......wouldn,t talk at all, but i asked if she wanted me to leave ........up to you she said(to me that really means she wants me to stay) anyway she has always told from early on the she will never say to anyone if she loves them(it,s her security she said).anyway after me sitting there like an idiot in silence i decided to leave it at that. any help here?


Sounds more like she is saying she dont care either way if you stay or go.

As for never saying to anybody she loves them......Bullshit! If you love somebody you have to tell them or show them some way. If you try to keep it all in you get the volcano effect after some time.

Based upon what you have said, i would say she isn't bothered much about you and how you feel. So if you expect more from her, do yourself a favour.

 

03.02.2009, 21:38 quote

rocketgirl

PMT?

 

30.05.2009, 22:43 quote

mrstu82

you need to know what her problem is, if there's no communication then how can you fix something. if she's not talking then that's a pretty good statement that she either hasnt figured out what's wrong or she doesnt want it to work.

that might not be helpful but it's something to consider.

if there's a genuine problem then be patient, girls can sometimes be a strange breed, and think things through a lot differently to guys. dont rush her, listen, understand anything she says. ask questions about how she's feeling. She probably doesnt want solutions, just to know you understand her.

 
 
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