I wouldn't want to undo my life now and the people I know. During the major events in my life that were definite crossroads, I didn't know any better. Relationship wise, none of them have been total disasters, no matter how much they hurt me.

I'd tell her i loved her.

The only person I'd like to reach by time machine is in Australia right now.
I sometimes look her up on google, and she seems to be doing well for herself.
If I really wanted to do something about it, I don't need a time machine. I just need to get myself over to Melbourne!
I wouldn't do that though. I feel that people become separated from each other for good reasons. Idealising and rose-tinting a flawed relationship won't ever make it possible to have it work in a way it didn't first time round!
I met Ozzie six years ago and I still haven't found anyone that comes close!

great topic. Think most single guys get visited by 'the ghosts of girlfriends past' that they like to meet/see again, especially if a bit love starved!

i dont think id go back and do anything different, any split ups ive had have been for good reasons and ive made no enemies

I really really wish I could go back

Maybe he wouldn't be dead

I dont know what I could do differently......

I tried so hard to help him when we were together

There wasn't much more I could of done

And he seemed to be doing so well when we bumped into each other..

I didn't see it coming


But yeah I would go back if I could


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i would and i would try to show my appretiation more and maybe give her some space when she needs it.
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Ooooo I have been away for a while but its good to see that this thread is still alive yay!

For any of you that sent kind msg's sorry I havent replied but I dont have the internet at the moment and I have been rather busy doing my flat up.

Anyway hope to speak to some of you soon.

GavTheMighty.

if i could go back in time and do it all over again, there is a girl i would love to still be with... but... on the other hand i have seen her bad side now as well as her good, and although in some ways i do still have love for her, i also know i could never be with her, it took me a long long time to see past my rose tinted glasses, and even now thinking about this question, i am still in 2 minds, butleaning towards the "im glad i got out when i did" i think if i had stayed for longer it would have been worse for me now. if i didnt still see her from time to tiime, then i probobly would still wear them rose tinted glasses, but everytime i see her , i see a little more, if you know what i mean.. the rose tint is fading. so the question should be ... not if you could go back in time, but possibly if you could go forward in time and see the concequences first.. would you be with her today....

As others have pointed out, experience whether good or bad is a good thing and helps us grow all the time. But, if I *had* to go back in time and change just one thing I would go back to when I was 16 yrs old with no self-esteem living with a 42 yrs old man who used me as a punchbag (yeah I have no idea either how I got into that situation...) I would only allow him to do it The Once Only and then leave immediately, instead of having listened to his countless "I'm sorry it won't happen again".

I was thinking about this earlier again. If I could, I would wipe everything, every crush, every bad decision, everything.

I'd go back 3 weeks and bring my mum back

I would transport myself in the here and now and give cheekymunky a big hug.
Baggie if you erased everything you would have no experience to learn from and you'd just end up making all those same mistakes again cuz you wouldn't recognise them as mistakes?