Hello everyone


I don't understand why i cannot find one single person that is
attractive, smart and emotionally in tuned that actually posses a heart.
I'm not unattractive at all or a total bitch, I'm very down to earth. I made a profile on here to maybe find someone new to talk to become friends with. I've just left a really bad
relationship he treated me horribly he put me down all the time and fought with me about stupid things. I just wish i could find someone real.

If you're looking for someone 'real' then the internet is maybe not the best place to be looking...

You sound emotionally drained. I'd highly recommend time out and some fun with your friends. Avoid relationships for a while, won't do you any harm.

Three identical threads hmmm.

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I've used and assessed Internet dating for 13 years more or less, and all I can say, is this: in relation to the original posting, FORGET IT VIA THE NET. Statistics show that 99.95% of advertisers on free and pay sites are serious bad news in the short or longer term. A rival example of this fact is that the drugs scene will always show you the one or two heroin users that have a great time, don't get addicted and hold down jobs... as opposed to the 1000's who don't. The comparison really is that stark... unfortunately. And that's the way it is.

Ah... but by expressing heart ache, one can attract someone with low self-esteem who is in 'saviour' mode, and they can then help the other get back on their feet - and have them eventually dump the 'saviour', then the 'saviour' can feel like crap and go date a long string of further recent broken hearts until he or she finally winds up in therapy - overcomes the low self-esteem - becomes a sexual tyrannosaurus, brutal tyrant and adherent to cosmetic surgery, coke and cash - and then it's all relative!!!!!

This is just my opinion, so don`t be offended, ok?
I think if you`ve recently come out of a nasty relationship and haven`t given yourself time to heal, then you may go into new relationships looking for them to do the same things and your attitude can drive them away.
Secondly if you come over as vulnerable, then that attracts the guys that abuse that needyness.
I think you need to just take time out with yourself for a while, enjoy a laugh with your friends and family, men aren`t everything. We`re no less for being by ourselves.

See...! Like I said... don't date anyone from the Net... ever!!!!!!