As i see it it is quite hard to stop ones heart from eventually breaking, there are 3 common ways for it to break out of loneliness, #1: you never get a girl/boy friend, #2: you get a boy/girl friend but you two break up, #3: you get a girl/boy friend but you grow distant. which have you lads and lasses experienced and how did you deal with it, is there a way to stop it from happening?

Well, number one rules out any chance of avoiding such thang....and as for numbers two and three, well that only leaves one possibility - meet someone and marry them and never break up.
But, that might not work and just lead to more heartbreak.
I am guessing you are young?
No intention of being patronising, but you know the heartbreak issue - all the things you list - are part and parcel of life and being alone at times doesnt have to be such a bad thang if you are confident with yourself.

When I split up with my old gf it was torture. We still worked together and had to see each other every day. It was difficult for both of us. When we eventally moved away, the pain dissapated. Now we're in touch again as friends and it's great. The best thing to do is move on asap to stem the hurt.

ya i haven't been able to get a girl friend in the last 3 years i feel like my heart is breaking out of loneliness. which is the main reason I'm on this website.

No girlfriend in the last 3 years.......but you're only now 19! slow down, chill out. It'll happen. Being on here helps, but if you dont mind me saying delete the bit about your weight, no one needs to know how many kg you are or laboring the point about no car or diabetes on your profile. Your profile should be to sell your good points, what a nice person you are, what great company you'd be etc. etc. And as for the no car thang, not alot of kids your age can afford one - even older people sometimes cant - having a car isnt such a big deal anyways.
Think of your profile as your Personal Life CV, be positive!
Meanwhile, get stuck into the forums and have fun!
As for the loneliness, get out and about meet people, join a club make friends so you wont feel so isolated.

Well i have a simple way of not getting my heart broken anymore .......... dont let anyone into your heart. Yes i know a pretty sad way to look at it ......... but when you have had your heart broken more than a few times ...... it's just something i have to do ........ and yes, here's that word again Self Preservation. I know one day i will have to let someone in ........ and hoping when that happens it's for keeps but until then .......... it's the only way it stops me from getting hurt again ............ x

ok funkychick1 let me ask you this, would you prefer to go out with someone that is causious but honest or someone whom is arrogant and would probably cheat in a heart beat if the opportunity arose. ?

Sorry if you misconstrue I'm not trying to wallowing in self pity. I'm probably just articulating my thoughts wrong.

edit:and as for the arrogant question, i was just describing the stereotypes.

Easy, get back on the dating game.