my mate had a crush on a girl for 5 years or so... i think crushes are harder to deal with if your a deep thinker - like him - and never letting himslf forget or move on.

this really was a mate and not 'me'! lol

needs proffessional help or is he over it?

well... this was mentioned and he would prob admit to being too into her for too long, but as i said it was him thinking about things way too deeply which lead to his 'obsession'.

bless the afflicted one!! ya know theres a name for it its kinda kool its called erotamania

kool erotomania rox like

If i have a crush and i know its not going to get anywhere, i ask them out anyway. The answer 'NO' does a lot to help me get over it. Its a blunt statement that stops you from nurturing hope.

I heard somethin' bout Emotional Intelligence could help you... You can apparently control your feelings too... But I'm always too lazy to read.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence

There are many books n articles on that.

I guess all you can do is focus your attentions on someone else, takes your mind off the person you are lusting after.

i find that copious amounts of drugs and alcohol helps me forget

Just move on to the next one .......... plenty more fish in the see as they say .......... or is that sharks