well if your not going to do anything about the crush, or the crush is already spoken for (or isnt interested in you ) then its time to move on

I know it is... I just dunno how. Never knew an unanswered crush could last for so long. lol

I don't think you can really get over it. You just have to move on.

yeah but if you move on...... then you'll get over it

I'm startin' to find some comfort in this topic. Thanks again!

its true though ,, i've been there

Girl you need to love you first.......then you will have the confidence to go outside your building.

Just had the same stuff with a friend of mine and she finally discovered that she couldnt move on and do things coz she had such low self worth. Men are ok..........time and place for them. Men dont generally want what a woman wants completely different priorities.

Morning :- Girls wash makeup make bed, feed animals, kids etc. go to work..
Men want love, fart, scratch their balls, lock themselves in the loo with a book, eat the food you made and leave.

Dinner time Girls come home from work see to all the little chores cook a meal.
Men'.......want love, eat the meal you made and home in on the tv control with a relaxing tonic! to watch football or whatever.

Bedtime Girls clear up ensure the animals are all ok wash change and go to bed expecting kisses and cuddles

Men finish whatever they are doin, nip up the stairs to bed where they want love!!! Then they fll asleep!

Do you really want the hassle??

Don't quite see it thatta way and do consider it a bit harsh. No offense.

Not a question of loving one's self here. No building whatsoever. It's all outdoors!

that is simple, find another crush
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Move on, …don’t waste time dreaming about something you can never have. Sure one day you will find someone that rocks your boat as much as your crush and when that happens you will probably wonder what you ever saw in this person.

This type of thing generally ends one of 5 ways:

1. You tell him how you feel clearly and unambiguously. He acts like a complete brain and openly laughs at you amongst his friends. The most humiliating, but you won't miss him, and you'll find it easy to move on.

2. You tell him how you feel clearly and unambiguously. He's tactful and considerate but lets you know that it's not going to happen. You have a minor dent in your pride and a chance of your life back.

3. You tell him how you feel clearly and unambiguously. He admits to having similar feelings and asks if he can take you out for a drink/meal/line dance. From there on it's down to you. (I suggest dumping him instantly -and possibly shooting him - if he offers to take you line dancing)

4. You move town/change job/emigrate (whatever it takes to make him unattainable through distance) With time your feelings fade, but you inconvenience yourself and possibly move yourself away from friends and family.

5. You continue torturing yourself in this unresolved situation until either he meets someone or one of you dies of old age. Not the best solution IMO.

Take your pick....

interestin. Thanks!

......or you could just have me as your love slave!

find a friend if you have one.A good friend. then just tell im how do you feel and why. generally helps in the beginning. being alone is always the worse to do.