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Home >> Love & Relationships >> Help! need advice please
21.03.2007, 06:53 quote
Hi guys please i could do with some advice! On sunday i spoke for hours with the most wonderful lady ive ever seen! I was a gentleman at all times and i think we hit it off,we have many shared intrests too. Ive not heard from her since lol,although she has been on and picked up the messages i left her. What should i do,i just keep thinking ive said something wrong which has upset her,although i cant think what. Help!
21.03.2007, 07:49 quote
Maybe she has a life and isnt on here all the time??? People do have other issues which take up their time.
21.03.2007, 08:24 quote
Hey Halloween
Firstly...Calm down! Try not to panic!!!
If she likes you...... she will message you back....maybe shes been a bit busy....
You guys spent a long time chatting..... thats a good sign
If you cant think of something you said 'wrong' then you probably didn't.....but dont try so hard......sadly if you seem to 'keen' this can put people off...
If she doesn't get back to you its not worth your emotional stress now is it ....try not to get yourself too worked up!
Good luck and I hope you get your response soon 
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21.03.2007, 08:31 quote
Thats very kind of you,im not stressed about it at all,but yes i hear what you're saying. Anyway thank you for your kind words.
21.03.2007, 19:04 quote
| Halloweenjack wrote: |
| Well thank you! |
Must apologise...my comment did sound a bit sharp this morning but wasnt meant to. I'm just not a morning person (and i had been playing with trolls last night
21.03.2007, 23:35 quote
Thanks to both of you,cazzabee thats fine it doesn't matter,but thank you for the last message! and adecentguy many thanks dude,i'll bear it in mind. Thank you both for the advice
08.06.2007, 16:23 quote
Don't worry about her feelings..just try and focus on your next NEW lovely lady..that you will eventually meet...lol
Oh...and above all NEVER worry more about others feelings than your own!
10.06.2007, 20:29 quote
Reading a message and not replying is fine, just depends how messages u actully sent, more than one some girls find abit werid..lol
Maybe shes been busy, i always open email read them and maybe reply, it depends if there is anything to reply to..
10.06.2007, 21:17 quote
Halloweenjack - how do you know she's picked up her messages?
Sometimes I just log onto the messageboards but don't check my messages, was just wondering if maybe the same could have happened with her?! Hope it works out for you or you find someone nicer. What's for you, won't go by you
Mystery lady that was chatting to Halloweenjack, if you're reading this please contact him even if it's to say you're not interested & put him out his misery
10.06.2007, 21:31 quote
OOPS
i just seen message flashing at top of board as last 2 messages have been recent, didn't even think to look at the date on original message. & i can't seem to delete my message now
Do you know what happened then?
10.06.2007, 21:33 quote
man, it is not ur story, ask any one womens are just little strange. if she didn't reply u back. email her if u have her ID, if she still doesn't reply. set her free.
18.06.2007, 22:30 quote
This may be an old thread, but it's a very common issue!
I think the man's problem was stated in the original post.
1) he acted like a gentleman (ie didn't build attraction and acted like a wuss)
2) they found that they had lots of common interests (I'm just like you, like me please!)
There are two types of men when it comes to men putting themselves forward for relationships. The Lover and the Provider.
The Lover builds attraction fast and a relationship can move forward extremely fast. The Provider builds lots of rapport, but not necessarily attraction. He proves himself to be no challenge and to not be exciting.
I think I've got the same problem. I'm finding it very hard to not be the nice guy when it comes to women. And then the minute I meet someone who I find I'm not really interested in, in communicating cocky arrogance and disinterest, I usually find I'm met by great enthusiasm on their part.
Stop being a gent and start using cocky humour!
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