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Home >> Love & Relationships >> Friends with an ex?
15.06.2006, 17:54 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: | ||
If you both have NO intention of getting back together, i don't see why not. |
Isn't "if you both have intentions to get back together" acceptable?
15.06.2006, 17:57 quote
| swissrebel wrote: | ||||
Isn't "if you both have intentions to get back together" acceptable? |
I think a different question. If you have intentions of getting back together then in a way you are back together barring loose ends...
Harsh maybe but you both know each other and you should be sorting the situation to be in the position to be together.
Not quite ex's in a way.
15.06.2006, 18:21 quote
| whizzer wrote: | ||||||
I think a different question. If you have intentions of getting back together then in a way you are back together barring loose ends... Harsh maybe but you both know each other and you should be sorting the situation to be in the position to be together. Not quite ex's in a way. |
You might only be having love with the other person and not realising they feel the same way! It's entirely possible. You're still ex's, you both want to get back together, but don't realise it.
It's like the plot to a really cheap romantic comedy.
15.06.2006, 18:36 quote
| swissrebel wrote: |
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Isn't "if you both have intentions to get back together" acceptable? |
Both are acceptable, actually, now that i have thought about it a little. I thought what you just said on that..so..
If they are an ex, they are an ex for a reason. If you just want love, but not a relationship, then it's ok.
Also if you do want to get back with an ex, it's ok.
15.06.2006, 18:38 quote
| swissrebel wrote: |
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You might only be having love with the other person and not realising they feel the same way! It's entirely possible. You're still ex's, you both want to get back together, but don't realise it. It's like the plot to a really cheap romantic comedy. |
I guess so.
15.06.2006, 18:40 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: | ||
Both are acceptable, actually, now that i have thought about it a little. I thought what you just said on that..so.. If they are an ex, they are an ex for a reason. If you just want love, but not a relationship, then it's ok. Also if you do want to get back with an ex, it's ok. |
so it's acceptable if you both want to get back together, it's acceptable if you both don't want to get back together - but not if only one of you wants to get back together.
Sorted
15.06.2006, 18:43 quote
| swissrebel wrote: |
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so it's acceptable if you both want to get back together, it's acceptable if you both don't want to get back together - but not if only one of you wants to get back together. Sorted |
Yep, exactly! (I had to think about all that...too much beer)
16.06.2006, 18:14 quote
Yeah I think it is alright still to be friends with an ex, im still riends with my ex tho we dont talk to each other alot but we're still friends anyway
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22.06.2006, 19:00 quote
I'm still friends my ex... (occasionally! lol) but I can't stand it when boyfriends are friends with theirs... Ohhhhh soooooo Selfish I know, .... but it sends me cuckoo!
27.06.2006, 07:56 quote
Well I'm sort of friends with an ex, well we were good friends until he decided he would tell me he was still in love with me 
so i didnt know what to do with that information, so i have kind of avioded him ever since. But i feel bad. He ended it with me because of things that were going on with his family, but it ended badly, he broke my heart. Yet i still forgave him and became friends with him (but i think personally he's pushing it too far). So you can be friends with an ex, even after a rather unamicable break-up
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13.07.2006, 18:47 quote
I tried this. It didn't work. He was keeping me on a string and vise versa as back up in case all others didn't work. It's not worth it to be there for someone that really isn't there. Once you've been romantic feelings always remain and to keep them in reality I have found it better to have distance...just my thought...Danielle
14.07.2006, 04:13 quote
| DSwan wrote: |
| I tried this. It didn't work. He was keeping me on a string and vise versa as back up in case all others didn't work. It's not worth it to be there for someone that really isn't there. Once you've been romantic feelings always remain and to keep them in reality I have found it better to have distance...just my thought...Danielle |
I have so been there on that one!!!!!
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14.07.2006, 07:59 quote
It's so much easier to have a 'shag buddy' Never ated, no romantic feelings, just no strings attached love. Works until one of you gets a partner then it has to stop!
14.07.2006, 09:38 quote
Not sure that always works though????? what if one of you starts to fall for the other....and its not recipriacted???
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14.07.2006, 12:20 quote
Most of my ex's ask me for advice with their new girlfriends.... sometimes I'm glad to see theyre still having the same issues.... and theyre still not listening... ie to me! 
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