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06.09.2006, 15:14 quote

Anonymous

Red...I think he's asking her if she wants to pop round and polish is head.

 

06.09.2006, 16:47 quote

Anonymous

For me personally, its all about being yourself.

However, according to The BBC relationship experts on dating/first impressions….. 55% of the first impression we get from someone comes through our body language…38% is from the tone, speed and inflection of our voice and a mere 7% is from what we're actually saying!

As written by the experts, ….“we need to get our body language right straight away or they won't bother to stick around to find out how fascinating you are. If you're not already feeling horribly self-conscious, you should be!! To make you completely paranoid, here's another scary thought. Before you've even spoken to the person you've got your eye on, the way you've walked and stood is more than 80 per cent of their first impression of you! We make snap judgements based on instinct but the fact is, almost every facet of our personality is evident from our appearance, posture and the way we move”

Do our minds really think like this!!!

 

06.09.2006, 22:20 quote

ChiefOHara
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nursecutie wrote:
For me personally, its all about being yourself.

However, according to The BBC relationship experts on dating/first impressions….. 55% of the first impression we get from someone comes through our body language…38% is from the tone, speed and inflection of our voice and a mere 7% is from what we're actually saying!

As written by the experts, ….“we need to get our body language right straight away or they won't bother to stick around to find out how fascinating you are. If you're not already feeling horribly self-conscious, you should be!! To make you completely paranoid, here's another scary thought. Before you've even spoken to the person you've got your eye on, the way you've walked and stood is more than 80 per cent of their first impression of you! We make snap judgements based on instinct but the fact is, almost every facet of our personality is evident from our appearance, posture and the way we move”

Do our minds really think like this!!!


Bloody hell, if thats true then im smarter than i thought!

 

06.09.2006, 22:22 quote

Anonymous

Yikes...

I may have just figured out why i'm single.

 

06.09.2006, 22:44 quote

ChiefOHara
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I doubt that your single flowerangelaura because you give off a bad first impression, id dare say its the exact opposite and most guys would consider you out of their league Very Happy

 

06.09.2006, 22:45 quote

Anonymous

I highly doubt it!

 

06.09.2006, 22:50 quote

ChiefOHara
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You'd be suprised, for all their posturing most men are craven cowards. Without dutch courage most of us would never approach women at all. Im certain that i can safely say that you've not only made a few heads turn but you've also made a few alcoholics in your time Very Happy

 

06.09.2006, 22:50 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
I highly doubt it!


may i ask why?

 

06.09.2006, 22:55 quote

Anonymous

ChiefOHara wrote:
You'd be suprised, for all their posturing most men are craven cowards. Without dutch courage most of us would never approach women at all. Im certain that i can safely say that you've not only made a few heads turn but you've also made a few alcoholics in your time Very Happy


Most guys don't even notice me, i'm sure of it.

 

06.09.2006, 22:56 quote

Anonymous

53846 wrote:
may i ask why?


Because..I'm just not one of those 'out of guys league' girls..?

 

06.09.2006, 23:04 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
53846 wrote:
may i ask why?


Because..I'm just not one of those 'out of guys league' girls..?


says who? ...you not being noticed...pah..

 

06.09.2006, 23:06 quote

Anonymous

53846 wrote:
says who? ...you not being noticed...pah..


Says me..

There's always better looking girls wherever I go. *shrugs*

 

06.09.2006, 23:18 quote

ChiefOHara
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Well to be honest with you flowerangelaura, id never approach you, I wouldn't be able to walk Partyman

 

06.09.2006, 23:20 quote

Anonymous

lol, I'm not sure how to take that. Confused

 

06.09.2006, 23:21 quote

Anonymous

I'd like to think i'm approachable. lol.

 
 
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