Like sure we all know that you need to get the know the guy and all before you start things as dating and then you start to get even closer to each other and end up going out with each other as in a relationship.
But the big problem here is that sometimes it is not easy for one person or the other to get closer to the other, even if there is a major attraction since he or she is just to shy or just doesn't want to push things to fast and freak out the partner.
So this is going to be about the problems that we all have about making the first steps with guys or girls. Or even a simple discussion to help each other when we are in this time when we just don't know what to do.

Hi, welcome to the forums.
The shy topic has been covered in a few threads, notable this recent one:
http://www.flirtbox.net/dating/shy-people-vs-non-shy-people-.html#414180

There is a Search facility on the RH side that uses Keyword and Author. It allows searching the posts or the topics. Good hunting!

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