When "on the pull" so it were, i tend to go for fit blonds or red red heads lol...

but as im quite fat, it would be hypocritical to segregate chubbier women, ive got a couple of "larger" women as mates, good fun to hang about with and really nice faces and eyes i could see my self having a relationship with one of them...if she was single

err...waffle waffle waffle...in other words dosnt bother me, i tend to look at the inner person...no luck over here yet though.

So this really comes down to linguistic devices and a sort of seld-marketing. The thing is its really up to you to sell yourself. Just using 'big and beautiful' instead of 'overweight' puts a positive edge on it. The two mean roughly the same thing but the former has a positive ring to it.
I bet most small people call themselves 'very slim' or 'petite' not 'scrawny' or 'weedy'. It's daft that we humans are so vulnerable to these little tricks, but in a way its good because a positive angle can be put on most things too.