I've been both fat and fit, and personally you cant beat being slim and fit. Gives you a whole different outlook on life. Gets harder as you go into your forties though, as you lose your natural fitness.

Maybe some people are comfortable with being large, but I suspect, and its my experience, most fat people deep down want to be slim and fit.



Deep down not sure personality matters over looks. Personality has to be linked with looks, but not sure looks has to be linked with personality. Especially not on the net anyway, as is my experience.

Heck, Tracy, if you still had the pic on yer profile, I surely would if I were that way inclined.

All about FIT girls FAT girlss maybe a media thing but for me nopeeee
well if she a stick aswell NOWAY in the middle is the best

I want a bit of Red action too!

Very good lads, but that doesn't answer the question...

if you saw the word obese on my profile before you knew me, would you take the time to get to know me?
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Most certainly. From what i have experienced over the years, i would put personality and trust in the forfront when i am looking for a partner, which i am now doing, trying, lol.
After my separation, i moved away and my employment these days means that the majority of the time i am sitting on my backside earning a wage, where before i was physically active. I have put on a fair bit of weight due to this, but i do say a big hello to my cross trainer parked in the garage every now and then. Maybe not as often as i would like, but hey,at the end of the day i am me.
Jonathan

It as been said before, you can be the fittest person in the grave.