Want to know, be brutally frank, how many of you guys out there have visited, been privvy to paid for sex and then cheated on your partner?

Women pay for sex also you know, not just men.

I think paying for sex would be an admission of defeat,... and I don't think I'm there yet.
I also think that in the vast majority of situations,.. it's just exploitation, which is morally wrong.
It's also a bit risky.

But if it's definately not exploitation, then fair enough, I can't find anything morally wrong about it. Still, not for everyone.

As for cheating,.. I don't think I have ever cheated on anybody.

just wondering what strippers (in the title) have got to do with this topic? i have had a strippogram. was at work for my birthday, had to undress her out this kinky pvc gear, take down her g string with my teeth, rub my face in her boobs and have her sit on my chest with her muff inches from my face. embaressing with all your work colleages around you watching, but all in good fun and what a gorgeous bird as well

i lost my virginity to an escort girl, i was 18 and gagging for it and weren't getting any offers, which is the story of my life! anyway my mum was on holiday and it was my birthday and i was feeling well horny, so i had the idea of getting myself a hooker to show me how things are done so i used internet phone which i got for my B-day to look for a girl who was good looking from this agency, i chose an american girl called jamie who was 22, the woman i spoke to said jamie will be with you in an hour or two, so i sat in my livingroom waiting trying to give myself dutch courage by drinking a whole bottle of vodka,
i was pissed as a fart by the time she turned up and nervous as hell seeing as i had not been laid before, but i explained this to her and reluctantly handed over a wod of cash and she handed back to me a pill? i was like whats this! thought she was giving me drugs or something but it was viagra, well i took it and probably needed it coz i was a bit drunk and my willy had gone to sleep and it was 3am by the time she turned up, we had an hour together and i asked her to show me how to fuck a woman the way a woman should be fucked, i also asked her what she likes a man to do to her and i was shocked when she told me that she likes it rough, to be slapped in the face and stuff like that, i said i cant do that to ya i'v only just met ya, to cut a long story short she sucked i fucked, and she taught me well !

jesus that was painful reading.

what do you mean by that numb nuts?

its not painful, its just my story, something ill never forget that i wanted to share with people on hear, i'm not embarressed and have no regrets, i was a cheeky boy looking to have some fun and she was just doing me a service! if your talking bout my bad graamar, then i say this! i aint no fucking english teacher, so go swivel,

And dont be using jesus 's name in vain

so, are you buy-sexual bobby????

Jesus Christ on a bike, thats a great story!! Did you repeat the business transaction again?

dude you need to calm down a bit, i just meant i read it and thought it a bit sad that you felt you had to resort to paying for sex. no need for the name calling

ok i apologize, no hard feelings then yea!

No i'v not, but i always said to myself that if i was still a virgin by 18 i was going to do something about it, so i did and loved every minute, my brother did the same when he was 18, well kind of! he whent for a massage at some place and ended up getting a proper rubadubdub instead.

Never in all cases

Never had to

Not being a bighead, I just got the fast paced wit and stupidity