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07.10.2008, 20:12 quote

ravencolouredsky
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thats because you're a good boy Razz

 

07.10.2008, 20:21 quote

agonal

Yes, yes I am.

 

07.10.2008, 20:31 quote

ravencolouredsky
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you can have a cookie then Very Happy

 

07.10.2008, 22:57 quote

jeggae

I wouldn't mind having a relationship with a fat women who wants to lose wight, and have loads of sexercise. We could inspire each other.

 

07.10.2008, 23:08 quote

choochi0

jeggae wrote:
I wouldn't mind having a relationship with a fat women who wants to lose wight, and have loads of sexercise. We could inspire each other.


You go girl!

 

07.10.2008, 23:19 quote

snaithman

baggiebhoy wrote:
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Too many chickens here.

Give up your secrets or forever remain single says Baggies 8-ball.


OI! You don't know what the ball will say. You need to ask it first.

Sorry Sir Bags. Sad

 

08.10.2008, 13:04 quote

Chet24
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snaithman wrote:
Too many chickens here.

Give up your secrets or forever remain single says Baggies 8-ball.


I think it’s very difficult for some people to come and be totally honest on the open forums about who they like. It’s all very well admitting who you really want to be with but the biggest fear for people doing that is the rejection factor (for me anyway). There are a number of women on here that I think I would be compatible with but I wouldn’t go out and say it on the forums, I think its best left to messaging privately and building something more that way. I think some clues as who would be compatible come from all the flirting that goes on!
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08.10.2008, 13:34 quote

choochi0

Chet24 wrote:
snaithman wrote:
Too many chickens here.

Give up your secrets or forever remain single says Baggies 8-ball.


I think it’s very difficult for some people to come and be totally honest on the open forums about who they like. It’s all very well admitting who you really want to be with but the biggest fear for people doing that is the rejection factor (for me anyway). There are a number of women on here that I think I would be compatible with but I wouldn’t go out and say it on the forums, I think its best left to messaging privately and building something more that way. I think some clues as who would be compatible come from all the flirting that goes on!


Also you need to define the term 'relationship'

A person can have relationships of different types with all kinds of people. Friends, family, work colleagues, the person who's always behind the bar at the local.

The term relationship is an all encompassing one.

Even narrowing it down to a personal relationship does not make it much clearer. I have personal relationships with many people, it doesn't mean that they have been sexual or will ever be.

Once one person begins to interact with another a relationship is developed. What level of relationship are we looking at here? because on a small level we are all in relationships with each other already.

 

08.10.2008, 14:04 quote

Chet24
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choochi0 wrote:
Chet24 wrote:
snaithman wrote:
Too many chickens here.

Give up your secrets or forever remain single says Baggies 8-ball.


I think it’s very difficult for some people to come and be totally honest on the open forums about who they like. It’s all very well admitting who you really want to be with but the biggest fear for people doing that is the rejection factor (for me anyway). There are a number of women on here that I think I would be compatible with but I wouldn’t go out and say it on the forums, I think its best left to messaging privately and building something more that way. I think some clues as who would be compatible come from all the flirting that goes on!


Also you need to define the term 'relationship'

A person can have relationships of different types with all kinds of people. Friends, family, work colleagues, the person who's always behind the bar at the local.

The term relationship is an all encompassing one.

Even narrowing it down to a personal relationship does not make it much clearer. I have personal relationships with many people, it doesn't mean that they have been sexual or will ever be.

Once one person begins to interact with another a relationship is developed. What level of relationship are we looking at here? because on a small level we are all in relationships with each other already.


My post was refering to relationships beyond just forums, so boyfriend/girlfriend! Rejection from the possibility of that it the ultimate fear for people I think.
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08.10.2008, 16:15 quote

snaithman

Yes yes yes, I think you are turning a very simple, obvious question into something else.
This would probably be due to insecurities that have surfaced.
That is not an insult but an invitation to come out of your bubbles and take a chance.
Life is all about taking chances and regretting the ones you did not take. Very Happy

 

08.10.2008, 19:32 quote

colkitto

ravencolouredsky wrote:
colkitto wrote:
been single eight years actually...and you seem pretty typical...uptight...humorless and judgmental...still plenty more fish in the sea ...eh...lol


don't get me wrong i like humor... in fact the only people i really talked to off the site from here have been those who make me laugh and they are all lovely.

but your last comment was very unfunny.


so shh.


matter of complete and utter indifference to me if you find it funny or not, then and why not ignore it, as usual you have another agenda...I don't like it and I have to tell you syndrome,...lol..fill yer boots lass....

 

08.10.2008, 19:54 quote

choochi0

snaithman wrote:
Yes yes yes, I think you are turning a very simple, obvious question into something else.
This would probably be due to insecurities that have surfaced.
That is not an insult but an invitation to come out of your bubbles and take a chance.
Life is all about taking chances and regretting the ones you did not take. Very Happy


It may be simple and obvious to you. You have asked the question, but we don't all think a-like (thank god, if everyone thought like me I would have topped myself by now).

I doubt (but cannot confirm as I am only speaking for myself) that anyone is insulted by this thread. All I say it is not a simple question because it can be interpreted in many ways which makes me loathe to answer it as it will be interpreted by what the reader believes the answer means and this could be completely different to how it is intended.

 

08.10.2008, 19:59 quote

snaithman

My interpretation of relationship in this context is to date, kiss kiss, boyfriend, girlfriend thingy and anything else that may follow/ or may not follow.

 

08.10.2008, 20:15 quote

bexbex

choochi0 wrote:
jeggae wrote:
I wouldn't mind having a relationship with a fat women who wants to lose wight, and have loads of sexercise. We could inspire each other.


You go girl!


Er...Jegs is a fella???? lol x

 

08.10.2008, 20:26 quote

jeggae

bexbex wrote:
choochi0 wrote:
jeggae wrote:
I wouldn't mind having a relationship with a fat women who wants to lose wight, and have loads of sexercise. We could inspire each other.


You go girl!


Er...Jegs is a fella???? lol x


puzzled me a bit, thought I'd better steer clear. I could never get away with being a girl. I was forced into being the 'only gay in the village', luckily that didnt fool anyone.

Dont let women off the net pick fancy dress for you

 
 
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