Beauty and attractiveness are often thought to be one and the same but for me they are worlds apart. I find lots of people beautiful, no more so than my closest of friends of either gender, but, to find them all attractive is impossible for obvious reasons.
Going back to attractiveness, my analogy is that it is like the cover of a book, it catches the eye to make you want to take the book from the shelf and open the cover, what you find there is personality and dependant on what I find depends on whether I read on or put the book back on the shelf.

I buy into what Moose has posted, to being realistic, some books have a "reserved" feel about them, you know that you won't be able to reach the shelf without a "step ladder" namely wealth, stature or popularity.

Back to the OP I think its all to do with preference and life experience to whether someone looks at size as being a factor, for me size isn't the be all and end all its whats inside that makes me want to "read on"

In my youth I remember having to work with a guy who I thought had an unusually ugly face. However, we got on really well and eventually started dating, and the features that I'd originally thought were ugly, became the features that I found most attractive in him. I'm glad that my first thoughts didn't prevent me from having an enriching relationship.

I say go big & beautifull woman, we are just as beautifull as everyone else. Like they say beauty is only skin deep

I agree with sweetblossom 100%

" mean, come on, surely everyone realises at a fairly early age that the fittest and best looking blokes end up with the fittest and best looking women? You don't need to be a genius to work it out, right from when you first start dating all you need to do is look around you".

David Beckham being the exception to the rule then?


(to be honest though, joking aside, I dont particularly find DB attractive, and I am sure he cant be the only bloke on the planet who finds that woman of his attractive, so it's down to individual taste again isnt it?).

i think tht big beautiful women are sexy and very very hot

Its quite weird.. i dont know if anyone else feels the same as me.. but when i think about it, i love girls with a fuller figure but when it comes to myself i dont think anyone would think the same about me.. is that no confidence or..?

It's nothing to do with size for me. There's either something there or not. Big, small, tall or short who cares?

High Five Mike !!!