I dont fancy women, but i think as far as men go, yes big is beautiful.
I find it a turn-off to feel bones. Like something to grab a hold of, i suppose. As far as cuddling etc goes, i much prefer the man to be bigger than me - taller, plumper etc. I am not exactly tiny or skinny haha so he has to be fairly large to satisfy me!
(my son has always gone for VERY big women, I asked him about it and he said the likes of victoria Beckham look ill and he prefers to see a woman who obviously enjoys stuffing her face with nice food! And he says he too prefers to feel a bit of fat squidge in his hand, as opposed to bones).

I think, and from experience. In general men accept and are attracted to fat women much more them women are to fat men. Normally when a woman say they like big men, that normally means 6 foot plus and muscle. Of course not many people are attracted to grossly over weight people. But I think in general, some men accept fat more then women.

I have known men that like Moose, are attracted to a bit of fat on a women. But not sure I have known many if any women that actively look for fat men...even fat women.

I also know this from personal experience.

right i havnt really read any of the other replys cause basically it is too long and i am a busy guy but in anser too our question " is big beautiful"
i say too you

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

" mean, come on, surely everyone realises at a fairly early age that the fittest and best looking blokes end up with the fittest and best looking women? You don't need to be a genius to work it out, right from when you first start dating all you need to do is look around you".

David Beckham being the exception to the rule then?


(to be honest though, joking aside, I dont particularly find DB attractive, and I am sure he cant be the only bloke on the planet who finds that woman of his attractive, so it's down to individual taste again isnt it?).

i agree, well said annmarie!!!