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17.06.2008, 12:37 quote

lonelyheart10
lonelyheart10 Joined: 05 May 2008 Posts: 22 Location: South Africa, Gauteng, City of Johannesburg
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DO YOU THINK BIG IS BEAUTIFULL?

If you think that big is beautifull, then I'd like to hear from you. I find that most men wants their girlfriends/wifes to look like models.

What is it that you like/dislike of big woman?

Are they good in bed?

What turns you on?

 

17.06.2008, 13:12 quote

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baggiebhoy Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 3874 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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I think big can be beautiful. There are some women who look better being quite large, while some look better being quite thin.

Being good in bed is an individual thing...some people are bad in bed, some are good. Some can be trained to be better Laughing
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17.06.2008, 13:22 quote

lilacrose

I dont fancy women, but i think as far as men go, yes big is beautiful.
I find it a turn-off to feel bones. Like something to grab a hold of, i suppose. As far as cuddling etc goes, i much prefer the man to be bigger than me - taller, plumper etc. I am not exactly tiny or skinny haha so he has to be fairly large to satisfy me!
(my son has always gone for VERY big women, I asked him about it and he said the likes of victoria Beckham look ill and he prefers to see a woman who obviously enjoys stuffing her face with nice food! And he says he too prefers to feel a bit of fat squidge in his hand, as opposed to bones).

 

17.06.2008, 14:24 quote

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I think some men prefer a voluptuous woman to make love to, and are excited by a bit of flesh to grab hold of, but as we're in a world where many people care what other s think, they want to be seen with the 'model or glamorous' women hooked on their arms.
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17.06.2008, 15:19 quote

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PasleptSiekare Joined: 21 Feb 2007 Posts: 4049 Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire
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I think that big can be beautiful. It's all about the confidence thing. If a 'bigger' woman can carry herself well and with confidence - then it can be beautiful.

It's the same if you are skinny, I guess.


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17.06.2008, 16:57 quote

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Bliss23 Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 4109 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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I think neither big nor "small" Razz are beautiful, ugly, good, bad. Those qualities exist only in the eye of the beholder and are totally subjective. The qualities you're searching for in someone's body also depend, willingly or not, on what patterns your mind sticks to.

Par example if you've been living in a country filled with big women, you can choose to be different and go for skinny, or can be with the crowd and go for the big as they are more and/or the trend. You have to remember that trends change. At one point in history big (also really depends on what big means to you) meant healthy. Now it might mean something else.

And the law for searching for a thin/big mate (to mate with of course) can have a word to say sometimes too (again depends on what type of jungle you're living in and what qualities are more likely to be prized bodywise). And now I'm not saying you're consciously searching to have kids, but that the instinct could just as well exist in your body and have a word to say about your prefferences.

Anyhow, there's more to a person than their body. So sometimes you might ignore someone's body shape or whatever bodily qualities for some other stronger type of qualities you like in them.
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17.06.2008, 17:13 quote

LittleVixen
LittleVixen Joined: 11 Oct 2006 Posts: 6177 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cornwall
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As long as you feel good about yourself it doesnt matter what size you are...its whats inside that counts.....surely Confused saying that i'm bigger & I feel beautiful....most of the time anyway Very Happy
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17.06.2008, 18:11 quote

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funkychick1 Joined: 19 Apr 2008 Posts: 1377 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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I always wondered why it was given the title 'Big & Beautiful' what its mean is do you think fat people can be attractive ....... Laughing Laughing

Beautiful to me means an attractive person both on the outside and the inside ......... so in that case then yes if your a bigger girl and beatuiful at the same time ...... you have earned the title ........ but on the flip side not all thinner girls are attractive just because of there size ........ i mean you never hear the title 'thin & beautiful' do ya ...... Rolling Eyes

If your happy and have confidence with the way you look thats all that matters and anyone that gets hassle because of there size ........ fuck em ....... it's there loss ....... Razz

 

17.06.2008, 18:49 quote

kingpin187

its all personal preference aint it

I dont do skinny. Got to have some meat on the bones!.. not so much a steak, but a chop. Thats my preference anyway Very Happy

 

17.06.2008, 19:45 quote

moose666

As everyone on here knows (I go on about it often enough!) I am a great fan of the larger lady and definitely prefer women who are curvy and on the larger side.

However.. phrases like "big is beautiful" are stupid. It suggests that a woman is beautiful simply because she's big, and that's not really the case is it... there are women who are big and NOT beautiful, the same as there are women of all other sizes who are not beautiful.

So I think these catchphrases like big is beautiful and "BBW" are really just a nonsense.

But having said that, yes once again I do prefer bigger women and am much more likely to be attracted to a woman if she's on the larger side (as well as attractive to me in other ways too.)

 

17.06.2008, 19:51 quote

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17.06.2008, 19:56 quote

moose666

mirrorpool wrote:
LonelyHeart you look fantastic!


She does actually, yeah. What a pisser she's in South Africa.

 

18.06.2008, 04:58 quote

lonelyheart10
lonelyheart10 Joined: 05 May 2008 Posts: 22 Location: South Africa, Gauteng, City of Johannesburg
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I would like to thank everyone for their comments... and compliments... so far... I've been single for a good couple of years.... and want to start dating, but I'm a little scared, and can't can't find someone who does not mind a few x-tra pounds... Where men is concerned.... I like big... Let's hope one day I'll have enough courage to actually go on a date... Wish me luck...

 

18.06.2008, 19:56 quote

moose666

lonelyheart10 wrote:
I would like to thank everyone for their comments... and compliments... so far... I've been single for a good couple of years.... and want to start dating, but I'm a little scared, and can't can't find someone who does not mind a few x-tra pounds... Where men is concerned.... I like big... Let's hope one day I'll have enough courage to actually go on a date... Wish me luck...


Come over here and I'll take you on one, no problem. Heh heh!

 

19.06.2008, 09:31 quote

lonelyheart10
lonelyheart10 Joined: 05 May 2008 Posts: 22 Location: South Africa, Gauteng, City of Johannesburg
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Thanks babes... I'll remember that should I ever travel to that side of the world.... heh...heh...

 
 
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