what a negative soul destroying feeling to have i know i have suffered this affliction in the past and want others experiences and how they dealt with it plz?

I dont do it - unhealthy and soul destoying - refuse to be jealous about anyone or anything anymore!

Stuck out a jealous an abusive relationship for years...


Its great to feel wanted

Its horrendous to have absolutly every aspect of your life monitord & controlled

I wouldn't put up with it again

I have been know to have the odd burst of envy mind u
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to tell you the truth i very very rarely get jealous and even then its only minor..

I'm jealous of my cat, he can lick his balls!

you had to go and lower the tone didn't you, ha ha ha ha! wicked!

lol

I have been in jealous relationships and have been jealous in relationships, its weird I always promised myself I would never ever go there, I mean its not worth it, you cant force someone to love you and all there rest of the things we say when we deny what we can and will do when we are in a situation we cant handle
The thing is im not a bad person but one time when my desire became to much to handle I went way over the top and I am ashamed to admit it but I did do some checking on my partner, but my feeling were correct and she was cheating so I don’t feel to bad but convincing myself that I what I was doing was not nearly as hard as I imagined it would be

i have no clue
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Sorry but I've never been jealous in my life as far as I know...but I have known people that have been manically jealous and its an irrational emotion that some people find it impossible to deal with unfortunately...I've noticed it seems to be linked with insecurity, sometimes intense. The sufferers seem to think their partner will be taken away from them...sometimes it has led to violence. Ironically it sometimes has driven the partner away, maybe what the sufferer wants ??
Sorry I couldn't be more help.

yup same here i dont get jealous, sometimes i wonder if that is the reason i got walked all over in the past because i was to laid back who knows and meh who cares im better off out of the past lol. All i can say is if there is jealously then there is lack of trust and not a stable ground for a relationship. im the trusting type and happy that way.

You should only really have reason to be jealous if your partner goes and snogs someone else or bonks someone else while you are seeing them. Otherwise there is not much to be really jealous about.