look ive been single for ages and im looking for companionship could someone please consider me. i live in the northamptonshire area and im 18 in a couple of weeks so would you ladies out there give me a try. trying to start a conversation on here is like pulling teeth since noone responds to messages so i thought id try on the forums. so thanx in advance for any replies x

All good things come to those who wait! As i have said before.. it will happen, you are young and have your whole life infront of you. Enjoy it!
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i understand that i am young and everything but it feels like its never going to happen since people wont even give me the time of day. and see all these happy couples just makes me feel worse i mean to be honest ive never had a girlfriend. im to shy to talk to girls. i have very low self confidence.

Oh sweeti.. you will honestly be fine..... don't try to run before you can walk.... take each step slowly.... and be your self. I understand how frustrting it is for you, but the more you look , the harder to find. Sit back, relax you will be fine...
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thank you very much for your kind words and support it means alot. i will try to take what you have said and follow it. i think i have low self confidence coz i was bullied alot at school. i have people i fancy but when it comes to talking to them about it i clam up and go all shy its silly really xx

I like the comparison to pulling teeth Mind you having a tooth pulled is probably more exciting than trying to ellicit a response from members of the fairer sex! Perhaps a comment made by almost purrfect on another thread indicates that too many people have suffered snubs bad treatment and rudeness to even contemplate having a relationship So are we slowly evolving into a system where casual sexual liasons are the accepted norm?
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

Hopefully not eccles. Well, I hope not anyhow. Maybe we are a dying breed my fellow boffin?
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Hi Moonwolf! i'm beginning to think extinction is the key word? my inbox is starving slowly to death from lack of messages?
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

Mine too

Only ever had a couple of responses to mails I sent and a couple of weird spam messages. Never had a message just sent to me. But I do make it clear that I am only interested in chatting, so I guess that not many females are too interested.
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Thank you
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I've had a few sent to me but most don't follow up? and i think 3 replies to messages i've sent??? Console yourself with the thought that you are not alone with this dilema?
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!