Here's a topic you've all been waiting for (pmsl)... Don't know if this already exists, but I doubt it.

Here you can list all problems you have with men or women. You have something to say to the last girl who f*cked you up? Here's the place to say it...

One last wish for the guy you madly loved? Go ahead...

Maybe some compliment for your crush in first grade? Le's go...

I really hope this topic will hit it off, because I think it is one from which we all can learn a lot about Do's and Don'ts in relationships. Also good for people who are left with frustrations or who didn't get to pay their last respects to their loved ones.

I'll be back later with my share.
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I think this could be an interesting thread, I'm just mindful though that to comment in such a way may reach the wrong person, like they could think I'm referring to them when it may have been somebody else on fbx that I'm referring to, or when you want to make a point to somebody they won't recognise themselves. Best thing really is to have told them when you had the chance.
However I've got a feeling I'll have something to say later.
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Very well...

As nobody's attacking this, let's see.

I'd like to tell the last guy I crushed on that I wish he would've told me he decided to cut it, as I kindly requested him. It's a total lack of respect not to tell someone you're moving on, especially when they request you to do so in case it should happen. That seems to be a problem with lots of people, lack of bees.

I'd like to tell most people I know that I hate hypocrisy and lack of seriousness and respect. After all, it's not like we come from the jungle. Even there they have communication in its purest form. Use bloody words, ffs. As Vonda Shepard would put it... "I'd rather take a blow, at least then I would know, but baby don't you break my heart slow." Therefore I'd rather be hit in the face or sworn at, than stabbed.

I'd like to tell some other people that they should learn what responsibility is.

I'd like to compliment my dad one last time, although I've done it in the past... For being one of the greatest people I've ever met, who stood strong and mighty until the day he crashed for good. Also would like to tell him "Thank you" for being there for me in all circumstances.

And I want to thank Santa Clause (this being a code name) for existing and showing me that romance like in the flicks is possible if you're perfect enough. Also have to compliment them on the ability to love like they've never been hurt before and for their general goodness. BRAVO! I bow.

Oh and to end with some other harsh words... I'd like to tell people who get you addicted to something they have that if they stop the addiction without notice and then act like nothing happened they really shouldn't expect respect and the situation to be like before.

I rest my case. Wrong or not. That's what I had to say.
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I'd like to tell my ex that problem's should be dealt with, not ignored and swept under the carpet. If she want's to move on in her life, as she claim's she does, then she need's to address certain thing's, they wont go away by themselve's. Also, if she care's/cared about me the way she claim's she should have complimented, and surported me once in a while, rather than just expecting me to be there for her all the time. Men have feeling's too.

And to most girl's I've been out with or nearly gone out with - accept a compliment graciously, it's a good thing!

I would like to thank all the guys i have had the pleasure to meet, in making me the person i am today .......... a very nice girl, who is somewhat closed off to any sort of feeling with regards to love or even attempting to try and find it.

I would like to tell God, well I have told God, that it seems an awfully cruel world and I feel that I would be better suited to somewhere slightly more surreal and with poor lighting

I would like to tell Smartest Robin that when a guy tells you he loves you and that in a perfect world he would like nothing more than to spend the rest of his life with you, don't tease him, don't passionately kiss him, don't take him into the toilets and pee in front of him, don't get changed in front of him, don't take him to meet your parents then spend the rest of the day showing him all your wonderful clothes and costumes, don't keep hugging him and telling him that you love him, don't then go onto make mad passionate love to him for 50 hours non-stop, don't let him do every thing you want him to because he cares and loves you and you make him so happy and don't at the end of it all when you've built a impossible bond to break expect to just walk away a shut him out your life like he never existed.

Sorry for the long paragraph but it was needed. Also just so you know, it made me cry writing this.

Ouch that struck a nerve u4ric.
It made my eyes prickle.

And I hope writing it helps you feel a tad better. x

Thank you but as i'm sure you and anyone else who understands knows, I have told that story a thousand times and realised long ago that nothing helps and no one has the answer. The only hope is that you can be strong enough to live with the pain.

Sorry, back on topic.

Today I feel delighted that such few people have something to say to their exes. LOL Talk about getting closure. Good for you guys! Some aren't so lucky.
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Heh sorry about that last post, hope it didn't kill the topic. I was drunk and emotional lol

Funny (or not) how I need to be drunk to express myself more, another topic though me thinks.

Being drunk may seem to be the only time that you can express your emotional self, but it may be that you don't meet the kind of people that you would be comfortable sharing things with.
If you had the opportunity to go for counselling or therapy or even hypnosis, you may find that you can express yourself without drink better than you realise.
Counsellors and Therapists undergo years of training and have skills to facilitate people to express themselves, as well as being able to work their unconscious within the therapeutic relationship.
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I completely understand what your saying and have been on these forums enough to know you know things but this time personally I have to disagree. This dosn't belong on this topic but I need to answer. I have been seeing some kind of mental health professional for most of my life and I can honestly say what you have just said is not always true.

Anyone who feels the need to speak to some one I would 100% say go get professional help but for reasons I don't want to write on any public forum, its not always going to help.

Heh and this probably just makes me look like a nutter anyway.........