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25.06.2009, 01:08 quote

jemima78
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Is this old fashioned and childish?

If it is then when can you say 'this is my boyfriend' without scaring him?

If it is okay to say, then when do you ask?

 

25.06.2009, 07:37 quote

handsel
handsel Joined: 18 Mar 2009 Posts: 1121 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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Why not say, 'Can I be your girlfriend?'
Or move it a little back from the 'Yes' 'No' answer: 'I'd like to be your girlfriend.'
Or (if he's politically aware), 'When you hold the next election for the position of your girlfriend, I'd like to put my name on the ballot paper.'

It's not old fashioned or childish, unless he's over, say, 85.

How do you know it'll scare him?
Might it not have him floating around somewhere off the floor?
With his chest puffed out?
Wondering how the hell he could be so lucky?

The best time to ask?
Well, I'd say after you've made him a bit groggy with a couple of forearm smashes and you have him securely held in a folding body press.

Don't underestimate your own power!
You think it hasn't occurred to him? Wink
Good Luck!
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25.06.2009, 11:22 quote

dom2323
Joined: 20 Jun 2009 Posts: 15 Location: United Kingdom, England, Hampshire
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handsel wrote:
Why not say, 'Can I be your girlfriend?'
Or move it a little back from the 'Yes' 'No' answer: 'I'd like to be your girlfriend.'
Or (if he's politically aware), 'When you hold the next election for the position of your girlfriend, I'd like to put my name on the ballot paper.'

It's not old fashioned or childish, unless he's over, say, 85.

How do you know it'll scare him?
Might it not have him floating around somewhere off the floor?
With his chest puffed out?
Wondering how the hell he could be so lucky?

The best time to ask?
Well, I'd say after you've made him a bit groggy with a couple of forearm smashes and you have him securely held in a folding body press.

Don't underestimate your own power!
You think it hasn't occurred to him? Wink
Good Luck!



any one ever told u bear a strange resemblence to hugh hefner ? Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy

 

25.06.2009, 14:54 quote

handsel
handsel Joined: 18 Mar 2009 Posts: 1121 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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dom2323 wrote:
handsel wrote:

Don't underestimate your own power!
You think it hasn't occurred to him? Wink
Good Luck!



any one ever told u bear a strange resemblence to hugh hefner ? Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy


No, No, No, No, No, er, No!
I'm much, much more handsome!
There are similarities: We have 2 legs, a heart, 2 eyes, etc.
But there are differences: He's much older and he's weighed down with too many young women and too much money.

any one ever told u bear a strange resemblence to so many others on here? Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy
It's spooky how many of your family are on here!
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25.06.2009, 16:50 quote

dom2323
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listen hugh lets just leave my family out of this one alrite?

 

25.06.2009, 16:51 quote

sc0ttie

handsel wrote:


any one ever told u bear a strange resemblence to so many others on here? Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy
It's spooky how many of your family are on here!


Pmsl that cracked me up.

 

25.06.2009, 17:03 quote

sc0ttie

handsel wrote:
Why not say, 'Can I be your girlfriend?'
Or move it a little back from the 'Yes' 'No' answer: 'I'd like to be your girlfriend.'
Or (if he's politically aware), 'When you hold the next election for the position of your girlfriend, I'd like to put my name on the ballot paper.'

It's not old fashioned or childish, unless he's over, say, 85.

How do you know it'll scare him?
Might it not have him floating around somewhere off the floor?
With his chest puffed out?
Wondering how the hell he could be so lucky?

The best time to ask?
Well, I'd say after you've made him a bit groggy with a couple of forearm smashes and you have him securely held in a folding body press.

Don't underestimate your own power!
You think it hasn't occurred to him? Wink
Good Luck!


Handsel, if i wore a hat, I would tip my hat to you, a great post! You made your point with humour and fact. That is a formidable combination

 

26.06.2009, 07:02 quote

handsel
handsel Joined: 18 Mar 2009 Posts: 1121 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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Too much praise! Embarassed
Head grown two sizes larger.
Hat won't fit any more.
Posting it off to you.
So you can tip.

Regards from the Midlands.
Where nothing happens everyday.
And happens so slowly.
Nobody notices anyway.
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26.06.2009, 18:35 quote

shystef
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wow what do i have to do or win to be able to find someone to say that too, i have only met ppl who say within 2 hours of talking, having never met me, 'and now you have a boyfriend'. pmsl i always look over my shoulder to see if i can find him and when they say it; they never put a full stop or question mark or a smiley or anything, honestly do they think i am desperate? Or are they?
But rest assured when (if) i find someone i like i dont think i would say i'd like to be your girlfriend, but i think it would be nice if they said can i be your boyfriend?. Big enphasis on the question mark Smile

 

03.07.2009, 00:57 quote

thelazyclimber

haha, yeah, call me old fashioned but i reckon you do have to meet someone before you can be in a relationship with them!

 

03.07.2009, 19:10 quote

Bliss23
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HIHIHIHIHIHIHI.

PMSL

This is my boyfriend. RUN YOU FECKER, RUN. UT Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

Would you be my boyfriend?

Wow. I seriously believe I'd never ever be able to say that sentence. EVER.

LOL

I think "you're very cute" or "wanna have a drink?" work much better. Very Happy


However after a while of dating, I'd actually assume that they were my boyfriend. I mean, really...
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03.07.2009, 19:17 quote

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I tend to tell somebody that 'I like them, special' and hope the response is favourable.
I think I would find it harder to ask a guy if he wanted to be my boyfriend.

 

03.07.2009, 19:27 quote

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i don't think i could ask someone to be my boyfriend Laughing
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05.07.2009, 14:06 quote

dreadlocks38

There is absolutely nothing childish or old fashioned about expressing your feelings Jemima .
If you fancy a guy and want to ask him to date you [thats what this is about],just feel free to say it b4 it's too late,lol.
As we are constantly remined , It's not what you say but how you say it ,that makes the difference ,so follow your vibes I'd say
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05.07.2009, 14:37 quote

sc0ttie

Well saying "will you be my boyfriend" sounds a bit special needs to me, but each to there own!

 
 
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