Get to Tesco my good friend and that will see you right. I do believe she was looking at lamb chops when I found her!!!

BEST BIT OF MEAT SHE WILL EVER HAVE!! lol

Sorry to disagree with you Harvey. But when you say "YOU" cant be friends with an ex, you mean "I" as in "I Harvey" cant be friends with my latest ex.

I CAN AND I AM friends with an ex, he's really one of if not The my best friend, in all honesty.
So it can be done.
Sometimes.

I guess it depends how much love is still there.

I love her intensly but couldnt be her friend a sit would drive me crackers.
So yeah I agree rocket, you are right - it can work in some instances - but definately not my latest ex.

Yeah its funny that word love isnt it?
I do love my ex very much. Just dont want him to be my hubby anymore and there is no doubt he would say the same about me being his wife! But i know he loves me too. The kind of love I am talking about is obviously not the kind you would expect to find on flirtbox!

Its easy to answer yes or no and the answer is always no in my case. I can't handle it when they inevitably find someone else!

Indeed, its no good trying to move on and use someone else as leverage when you are still in love with your 'ex'. That's a hard lesson for all parties. As for being friends, I'll leave that debate to everyone else.

I live in hope.

I believe that whether you remain friends with an ex is influenced by many factors such as - how the relationship ended, how long you were together, whether or not you lived together, whether you share the same circle of friends and so much more.


I think that it is best to try keep on civil terms at least with your exes, unless they did something unforgiveable.

I consider most of my exes good mates, in fact my current best mate is my ex xD

Why not but don't talk about who you are dating at the moment. - at least not until you are at the point where you are completely comfortable as friends.