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12.08.2008, 13:18 quote

cavalli
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so can we be friends with an ex??

 

12.08.2008, 13:23 quote

LittleVixen
LittleVixen Joined: 11 Oct 2006 Posts: 7159 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cornwall
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Depends if they want to be friends with you....when my ex left, despite saying we would always be friends...........he lied Sad after 17 years of marriage you would think so would'nt you??? Confused
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12.08.2008, 13:27 quote

CMISO
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Depends in part on why they are an ex I would guess.
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12.08.2008, 14:16 quote

PasleptSiekare
PasleptSiekare Joined: 21 Feb 2007 Posts: 4226 Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire
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I think it all depends on the people involved, how they broke up etc...
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12.08.2008, 15:15 quote

leglover38

No, ..cos all mine are biatches!

 

12.08.2008, 15:16 quote

choochi0
choochi0 Joined: 13 May 2008 Posts: 4561 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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I can't be friends with my last ex because if I talk to him it generally ends up with him threatening to kill himself and I'm really not interested any more.

 

12.08.2008, 15:58 quote

funkychick1
funkychick1 Joined: 19 Apr 2008 Posts: 1659 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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Obviously if you were a biatch i would say no ............ but otherwise as has been said depends how it ended, i have stayed friends with a couple of ex's though.

 

12.08.2008, 17:45 quote

moose666

The answer is no.

 

12.08.2008, 18:19 quote

funkychick1
funkychick1 Joined: 19 Apr 2008 Posts: 1659 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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moose666 wrote:
The answer is no.


any particular reason ????

 

12.08.2008, 18:23 quote

CMISO
CMISO Joined: 18 Jun 2007 Posts: 2073 Location: United Kingdom, England, Lincolnshire
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Since when did Moose need reasons, you'll have to stop being friends with those exs now. Sad
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12.08.2008, 18:29 quote

funkychick1
funkychick1 Joined: 19 Apr 2008 Posts: 1659 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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CMISO wrote:
Since when did Moose need reasons, you'll have to stop being friends with those exs now. Sad


since when did you have to answer for him ........ and i hope the 2nd part wasn't referring to me

 

12.08.2008, 18:35 quote

rapidrat

Sure you can, I have friends who I talk to all the time, whom are ex's anyway...It's just different if something happened which caused them to become an ex in the first place!

 

12.08.2008, 19:58 quote

dez30uk
dez30uk Joined: 21 Jul 2008 Posts: 1 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cheshire
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How anyone can answer simply yes or no I dont know! Its all dependent on the circumstances. Granted your friendsip will not be the same but no point in going nuts about it - otherwise it can just become another complication in your life. Very Happy

 

12.08.2008, 20:11 quote

LittleVixen
LittleVixen Joined: 11 Oct 2006 Posts: 7159 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cornwall
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dez30uk wrote:
How anyone can answer simply yes or no I dont know! Its all dependent on the circumstances. Granted your friendsip will not be the same but no point in going nuts about it - otherwise it can just become another complication in your life. Very Happy


Exactly Confused
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12.08.2008, 20:14 quote

moose666

funkychick1 wrote:
CMISO wrote:
Since when did Moose need reasons, you'll have to stop being friends with those exs now. Sad


since when did you have to answer for him ........ and i hope the 2nd part wasn't referring to me


The question is "Can YOU be friends with an ex?" So taking this literally, i.e. can I, personally, be friends with an ex? The answer is no. I've never really seen the point in trying to stay friends with exes. You've split, it's over... the only reason I can really see to make the effort is if you've got kids together. If you haven't then bye bye.

 
 
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