Go on. Bend me a spoon.

Not strictly true, Cazzabee. I`m a man, and I can tell from over 200 miles away what women are thinking when Greystone starts talking to them. How`s that for psychic power?

Yes that is right. I was saying no to a previous post and then saying that women go for good looks more than anything else. There are few good looking guys for example who have trouble getting women. And if they do have trouble then it is usually because of something simple like they are too scared to approach women.

While on the other hand there are very few ugly guys who are very successful with women. And if they are it is usually because of things like they are famous or rich or are in bands.

I have to say that both men and women - both goodlooking and maybe not so (stereotype-wise) - have both good and bad luck with the opposite sex for the simple reason of personality. You are either attracted to someone, or you're not. Simple As.
I don't think there should *ever* be a stage at which one "gives up" - apart from the obvious cliche "love will find you if you don't go looking for it".
I realise though Greystone that you will totally disagree and will say it is 100% down to looks as to whether a person gets lucky or not, so we shall just have to agree to disagree straight away!!

I don't. Why would you anyway?
In my opinion there is not a single soul in this world, and i say that this is my opinion and yours may differ, that is matched, perfect or our soul-mate, to use the cliché. So stop looking for them and look closer to home. Being with somebody is hard enough with all the challenges of life presenting themselves on a daily basis. The sooner that you come to this conclusion the sooner you may begin to look at what people are like and how they differ from you and how compatible the two of you are.
What is a perfect match? Where everything is fine? What would you talk about? What would you do? We are different from one another for a reason.

in my search,i always seem to get more attention when im with someone but when im single ive been told by me mates girlfriends that i am "unapproachable".which they say means i am too outgoing when im out,ie i get on with everyone and look after me mates before myself!they say no lass will approach me if i dont make eye contact because im too busy enjoying myself!so ,that in mind ,a few pople have posted on here that u shouldnt give up and dont look for it,just enjoy urself and it will come!pah!everyone is diffrent i suppose.nowadays,well the last few years,i have found myself just going to clubs and pubs with live rock/metal bands as i love the music.but all i seem to see there is "just got outta school kiddies".a rock chick is suppose is what im after and im too stubborn to look at other options!i mean u gotta have stuff in common aint u?well they say opposites attract!well no ,it was paula abdul!!!!lol

aye cazz,u never know ,we could have been in the same bar!
love scotland like.