Hey Bexbex, wasn't directed at you, I can't even fathom why you haven't got hoards after you!!!

Sorry you're having shit day... have a hug on me (know I'm a girly) but hug sent to you!
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When I die, I want to go peacefully like my Grandfather did, in his sleep -- not screaming, like the passengers in his car.

I'm remined of one of my best mates with 4 children a few years ago & listeng to her on the lines of "I hate men..men are all the same..I'm stayign away from men..can't deal with them"
She now has 5.

Extrapolating, depneds on some peopl experiences, a few days, week,s months, 2 years I see often here & one friend, a celibate widow for 13 years now very hormonal

Ona one-to-one basis. It really is up to you. Not to knock again at leats once says somehting about your character, to continue to knock without reply & it may be worth questioning who are you doing this for. Howveer I've hear dof people chasing the same person for 8 months before marrying them.

But that wasn't harrasment!

Personally, I've pretty much given up.

I've gotten a bit fed up of being told I'm a 'nice guy' or 'lovely guy' by women who then go on to date complete assholes. I'm fed up of (for lack of a better word) persuing women who, for one reason or another, are completely unattainable. I guess I'm just fed up.

The day you give up looking for a lover is the day you cut your throat as life is not worth living without love.

i gave up looking a long time ago, i have gotten to a place in my life where i dont acctually NEED someone, yes it would be nice, but if it dont happen im not gonna curl up in a ball and cry about it. life is not all about finding someone. life has so many things in it that are more important than love or the persuit of it. i dont mean i think the only thing a woman is good for is love, but if i wanted just a person i could hang out with and have a good time, someone i had a lot in common with without the love... then i have best mates for that. yes it would be nice to have someone that i could share "everything with" but... its not my whole purpose

I don't actually think averagemale needs any advice on how to pick up women, Greystone. He was saying that he doesn't actually NEED to be with anyone.
Strangely enough there are a few of us out there who are happy on our own and with our own company. Its always nice when someone special enters your life but its not the end of the world if they don't.

I'm glad you clarified that Bex. I was thinking exactly the same about averagemale. All greystone seems to be doing on here at the moment...is free advertising for this flippin pickup thing he has going on. It's like he is obsessed or something. Yawn yawn! I'm so bored of it already and have come to the realization that it is just best to ignore his posts. At least that's what I plan to do from this moment onwards. I just have to try and ignore the posts replying to his inane posts now This, in itself.... is a lot harder to do as most people on here make sooooo much sense. Shame... its like talking to a brick wall and sense is so completely wasted on him

My thoughts exactly Kizz, felt sorry for him at first, now he just gets on my Tits, not literally of course, but i am sure he will start agroup about it though ........... x