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Home >> Love & Relationships >> At What Stage Do You Simply Give Up?

03.05.2007, 18:03 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
yeah im a strong believer in if you get yourself sorted and your happy with your life, then love will come..

but you have to be happy in yourself


I agree, some people worry too much about finding someone and rush into relationships, sometimes without thinking. Better off taking everyday and everyone as they come. Enjoy life and be happy.

 
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03.05.2007, 18:07 quote

Anonymous

spdarkhorse wrote:
Well, you can give up actively looking if you want, but your body and subconcious wont.

I think if I am single then 80 would be a good age to decide that the single life is for me. But till then dont give up - look on these forums, quite a few people arnt singles any more and are here because - well, just because they like them


I'm 50 and have been single by choice..but now I'm thinking of looking for the lucky women that will share my life Smile ..I'm probably going in reverse of what you said Wink

 
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03.05.2007, 18:50 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
yeah im a strong believer in if you get yourself sorted and your happy with your life, then love will come..

but you have to be happy in yourself


From your posts of the last few days Vi, it looks like love is due your way then Wink
aww thanks hun...

 
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03.05.2007, 18:51 quote

Anonymous

scottie69 wrote:
oh well he hasnt hung around
maybe hes taking a break from it all

 
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04.05.2007, 16:39 quote

Anonymous

yes vi, maybe he has. just didnt think the title of this topic meant he didnt have much luck and fucked off

 
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04.05.2007, 20:45 quote

Anonymous

i was being postitive but your prob right

 
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04.05.2007, 21:57 quote

is26
is26 Joined: 14 Apr 2007 Posts: 102 Location: United Kingdom, England, Staffordshire
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stay positive be happy be happy in yourself and things will look up soon
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Love is a language spoken by everyone,
but understood only by a heart.

 
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04.05.2007, 22:00 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7246 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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I dont think u should ever give up. Im sure cheeky has used this but whats for you wont go past you

 
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04.05.2007, 22:26 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:
I dont think u should ever give up. Im sure cheeky has used this but whats for you wont go past you



Yep cazza........ its my wee grannys saying

 
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04.05.2007, 22:36 quote

Cazzabee
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cheekyeyes wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
I dont think u should ever give up. Im sure cheeky has used this but whats for you wont go past you



Yep cazza........ its my wee grannys saying


Must be a scottish graany saying cos mines says it too Laughing Laughing

 
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05.05.2007, 05:23 quote

toby

Usually you only find someone when you are NOT looking...even if it sounds strange. So giving up is usually the best solution to be successful.

Once you "give up", you also concentrate on other stuff in your life and find out more about yourself and stuff you like and dislike.

You might find out that being single might not necessarily be the reason why you are unhappy....but other things....and once you are happy even without a girlfriend you automatically become "more attractive" for women.....because you have a life apart from your "love-life" then and secondly because you are less clingy this way...many relationships fail because men are either too clingy (or are unfaithful).

 
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05.05.2007, 10:48 quote

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toby wrote:
Usually you only find someone when you are NOT looking...even if it sounds strange. So giving up is usually the best solution to be successful.
That is a load of rubbish if you don't actually go out looking for someone then you will never meet anyone. Listen to the advice of top pick up gurus Wayne Elise and Johnny Saviour. They explain that finding love means putting yourself on the line and approaching people and that if you don't make the approach then nothing is going to happen.

 
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05.05.2007, 11:13 quote

Cazzabee
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Greystone wrote:
toby wrote:
Usually you only find someone when you are NOT looking...even if it sounds strange. So giving up is usually the best solution to be successful.
That is a load of rubbish if you don't actually go out looking for someone then you will never meet anyone. Listen to the advice of top pick up gurus Wayne Elise and Johnny Saviour. They explain that finding love means putting yourself on the line and approaching people and that if you don't make the approach then nothing is going to happen.


No what your quoting seems a load of bollox to me. Has your so called "direct approach" had much success. Errrrmmmm nope. What Toby is saying is what most people experience.

 
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05.05.2007, 13:50 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:

No what your quoting seems a load of bollox to me. Has your so called "direct approach" had much success. Errrrmmmm nope. What Toby is saying is what most people experience.
true, and you always seem to pull more when your in a relationship cos your not looking and are usually happy in yourself..

desperation stinks

 
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05.05.2007, 13:56 quote

Anonymous

toby wrote:
Usually you only find someone when you are NOT looking...even if it sounds strange. So giving up is usually the best solution to be successful.

Once you "give up", you also concentrate on other stuff in your life and find out more about yourself and stuff you like and dislike.

You might find out that being single might not necessarily be the reason why you are unhappy....but other things....and once you are happy even without a girlfriend you automatically become "more attractive" for women.....because you have a life apart from your "love-life" then and secondly because you are less clingy this way...many relationships fail because men are either too clingy (or are unfaithful).


You are possibly right...if you are actively seeking [maybe desperately seeking] you might have more chance of picking the wrong people. I think its a case of taking plenty of time and looking below the surface of what people portray.

 
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