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Home >> Love & Relationships >> Are you faithful?
13.04.2008, 23:25 quote
I would NEVER cheat as i know "what goes around, comes around". Well i got it even tho i dont cheat as an ex cheated on me with a so called friend 
It gives u trust issues and takes a long while to get over it , so i say once a cheat always a cheat.
If a guy DID cheat on me now - his ass would be out the back door faster than he can say "Sorry" 
18.04.2008, 14:18 quote
| klee1986 wrote: |
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I thought i wouldn't cheat on my ex, but I sort of managed it in a half assed way. Some people just can't say no, but for others, like myself, it's a natural process of falling in love with someone, that love wearing thin and then falling in love with someone else. It's not easy to explain unless it's happened to you. Sometimes it reminds you of what you've got and makes you're original love stronger (a sort of pick the winner situation), most times it's splits you further.
It's bloody hard work to love somebody for a long time (>5 years), which is why there were so many social rules against cheating in the past. Now these are dead it's easy to play away and so we have to be a lot more aware of ourselves and what exactly is going on in our heads. Sometimes that means attempting to understand why the other person did what they did (cheating that is)....sometimes you have to look in the mirror for the answer.
Cheers...P
18.04.2008, 14:41 quote
| klee1986 wrote: |
| I would NEVER cheat as i know "what goes around, comes around". Well i got it even tho i dont cheat as an ex cheated on me with a so called friend
It gives u trust issues and takes a long while to get over it , so i say once a cheat always a cheat. If a guy DID cheat on me now - his ass would be out the back door faster than he can say "Sorry" |
I have to disagree there, Klee. Cheaters don't always cheat again.
18.04.2008, 14:44 quote
That's true, sometimes someone cheats just to get back at someone who did it to them in the first place,
Never say never is what i say - There are only 2 women in this world that i've EVER consider sleeping with if i was in a relationship and to be honest, the chances of me even meeting either of those two are slim, so i'm kinda confident when i say i don't think i'll ever cheat
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21.04.2008, 18:44 quote
| s6boystu wrote: |
| That's true, sometimes someone cheats just to get back at someone who did it to them in the first place,
Never say never is what i say - There are only 2 women in this world that i've EVER consider sleeping with if i was in a relationship and to be honest, the chances of me even meeting either of those two are slim, so i'm kinda confident when i say i don't think i'll ever cheat |
I know. I was one of those people and I can say..never again. If I feel the need to cheat on somebody, i'd more than likely break up with them instead.
21.04.2008, 18:52 quote
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I know. I was one of those people and I can say..never again. If I feel the need to cheat on somebody, i'd more than likely break up with them instead. |
that's pretty much what i'd do - i always thought that if you felt the need to cheat, the relationship obviously wasn't working out for one reason or another, so why be unfaithful, why not just be honest in the first place and save all that heart-ache and hassle !!
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21.04.2008, 20:10 quote
I was never unfaithful in my last relationship which lasted 12 years and as far as I know was never cheated on either, what I do know is, if I'm ever tempted in future relationships then its time to end that relationship.
21.04.2008, 20:21 quote
I did just the once many years ago, i cheated on my fiance & i'm not proud, I married the other guy & we were together 17 years, I would never do it again 
22.04.2008, 06:35 quote
I would never cheat, I have been in positions and relationships where it could be justified, but its not for me.
I believe that if you are willing to cheat on someone then you shouldn't be together in the first place.
01.05.2008, 14:13 quote
I would never cheat if I'd agreed to be in a serious relationship with someone. I know what it feels like to have it done to me and if I'm in love then there's no way I would consider being unfaithful and put that love at risk.
28.05.2008, 14:24 quote
as far as I'm aware no one has ever cheated on me, well I hope not anyways.
But me on the other hand, I have cheated, I'm really not proud of it, I hate the fact I did it. I never told him, it probably would have killed him. But he was constantly accusing me, apparently I was sleeping around, he'd ask 20 questions about all my male friends. It got to a point I wasnt allowed to go to my parents house. His jealously was awlful. Then a guy I was seeing before came back on the scene and I thought to myself, if I'm getting accused of it then why don't I just do it. We got a hotel and everything.
I'm not proud, but it gave me the release i needed from such a restricted relationship
01.06.2008, 22:09 quote
My Dad is 52, and I just found out yesterday he's had an affair for the past year, he's left my mum for her. Why do it? I dont understand
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