My brother and a few of my friend go from long relationship to long relationship and it’s always love???
I don’t get it yea I have loved but I have lost to so it balances it self out but I don’t get how people can do it I have checked with the females in these relationships and it’s the same for them one long relationship after another
I don’t get how these are always love I don’t get that they don’t realise if there always in love they don’t know what love is I don’t get that they think its ok to raise kid from many other relationships basically I don’t get it
My first love was with a girl called Mary, we were 14 and I felt at the time I would kill/die for her but that’s first loves for you I moved to another state and that was the end (there’s more to it but that’s enough to get the point)
5 years later I fell in love with a girl called Sharon but it was one sided and she decided that my brother was more her type then some druggie.
4 year after that I fell for Nicky and I asked her to marry me after about 5 months but she decided that another guy was more suitable so again it ended
then the last was Becky she was wonderful but I was still dealing with my last two loves and could not open up to her or explain why I could not open up to her after a while she ended it and I was hurt again, but I still did not realize the problem, I went it to jack the lad stage and I did a fine job of preventing myself from getting hurt, then a few years back I realised what I was doing, I tried and found Becky, not for some I love you speech please take me back but I realised I need to say sorry, I don’t blame her for not wanting to talk to me but I wish I could have said I was sorry and I realised my problem in the end.
But it was not meant to be and I can live with that I still find out about her from friend just to know she’s happy and I was really happy when she got married.
But the thing is I don’t get it if I dated a girl for 2 years how do you fall in love with someone else the day after it ends?

I'd like to post a valid answer here but I cant, I dont know

love is strange... but are you sure it wasnt lust that turned into love

some people do fall in love easy, i'm a sucker for love or is it lust? i'v been in love loads of times mate and the girls who i loved did'nt even know me, love for me is an overwhelming feeling of wanting to care for some one, not in a hospital bed kinda care but to be connected with a persons mind, body and soul so that two people become one and when that connection happens there's a spark and its called love. yea i love to be in love me, i feel all loved up now talking about this, anyway back to reality , no woman no love!

The spark is attraction mate love is more, bugger its everything, bugger its nothing bugger I love that word hehe
But man maybe some can give there heart over and over again I suppose if that was true I would be jealous of them. But I don’t think its true I cant really explain why but for me I think true love cant be for everyone its defined more has more texture its to deep to feel over and over again you give part of yourself that you can never get back, your heart catches each time you see them you feel like a 40 a day smokers that’s not had a smoke in 3 months and then has one, like a comfortable top that’s all ragged and falling a part but you wont throw away , like some one stuck a pin in your eye and twists it around all that and more all at the same time all contradicting its self and still more
Yea what do I know of love, but I do know I love the word BUGGER

so do you think you can only hate once in this lifetime too, coz hate is the opposite to love and when i hate somebody i hate them until the feeling of hate goes away! and i can easily say i hate somebody and very much mean it in the heat of the moment. do you get me?

like the words from the song by patti smith and don henley, sometimes love just aint enough

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOWCzFtXigo

Yea good call
But umm.. hate is not the opposite of love I takes nothing to hate someone we can hate for no reason or all the reasons under the sun hate is a throw away emotion what does it mean, now if you said whenever you hate someone you kill them, it would have more meaning (and I would call the police) but we hate for no reason
but I guess we also love for no reason but do we truly love them just because we have feelings for them, and do we hate someone just because we hate them well for hate the answer is more then likely yes but for love well sometimes we love someone so much we hate them like I said love is a contradiction

I think your going to deep for me you know, you kinda lost me on the tracks somewhere along the lines!

lol its ok, i can was thinking the same
but hay was fun, good tobe lost once and a while