perhaps my fear of rejection is because i don,t wanna be hurt. afterall my inbox has never had a reply.......even just for thanks, for my sent compliments.............not a sausage !(but even though i,m in a relationship(as mentioned in another post). when times are hard, it would be nice to know there is someone out there, just even to chat to..............what,s going on?

Well, your profile doesn't say much to be honest. If i were looking for someone or had received a message from you i would look at your profile before i replied. From what is there i probably wouldn't reply. Can't you make it a bit more interesting?

Sorry Max

Ok we get it you don't like rejection! Sorry to be harsh but whats going is that your just wallowing around feeling sorry for yourself and over thinking things, thats enough to put people off. I'm sure you must have friends and family around to talk when things get tough?

If you read through the forums you will find that your not first (or last) person to have an empty inbox. My advise would be first and foremost to make much more effort with your profile and perhaps adjust what your look for, "Casual encounters" won't do you any favors.
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I would say you need some better pics also, nice clear recent shots would be ideal

thanks chet, your advise is good , you kinda kicked me in the arse.there... to get on with life and stop worrying about what doesn,t really exsist..........all this advice can only make one stronger.............feels as if there are people to talkto afterall(by the way i don,t have any family membrs at all)

nd thanks to all who joined in helping me with my worries................CHEERS GUYS"N" GIRLS i,ll definately take it all on board...max

np matey

then maybe anyone can tell me why I do not have any reply since I have joined the site?

I think woman expect to much, they think they dont have to make any effort or show a minimum

Of course I'll make an exception for some people...

"I think woman expect to much, they think they dont have to make any effort or show a minimum"

Yeah we do.. we expect to receive a message without the word "brain" in it.. usually coupled with webcam, suck or 9 inches (yeah right, in your dreams matey).

A PM for you both